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I got let go this morning, paper stated the position no longer exists/available. Not really sure what i did wrong? but i dont think a week is a proper evaluation of my work skills.. so confused. and frustrated. I thought today would be my last day on unemployment nope... its not... Im so freaking frustrated. i dont even know what to say at this point.
I want to ask how come certain people can hear something hurtful and brush it off, and others of us are left to double over, ( either inside ) or sometimes even outwardly crushed by the pain of what was spoken? The worst part is when the speaker does not see how what they said is hurtful, and if you try to tell them, they roll their eyes, or scoff you or tell you to grow up. Since when did taking the hurt of others become a prerequisite to ' growing up '. ? Beacuse people learn to fake it? Or even worse, allow their hearts to be calloused and hardened till nothing hurts them? The problem with that is then they just ' dont care' about anything, and ususally have no problem telling you ' I DONT CARE ', about pretty much anything.
Since when did having a ' thick skin ' become a harbinger, a sign of maturity? Because when words come you can block some, while another types come in that you didn't see, so how can you block it? We have, as a world, but specifically as a nation become a people of unrest, and silent sorrow, that lets itself out in anger, rage, violence, and cold dead hearts. Now, please dont take offense and stop reading...A heart that is cold and dead usually annexes, and stems, like a vine, from the same place anything else does.........Pain........And that Annex of pain, can flower down with all its elegant, excrutiating, spirals, going round and round and round, into the expance of the infinite cosmos, and when they touch the ground, an explosion happens all around them. Streams of fire in all directions. That is one analogy of the pain we spread to one another.
We were not born with the need to protect ourselves, or to think ' sanely ' or ' rationally '. We were born from the sparkles in God's eyes, and sent here on a mission that WE volunteered to do, in order to HELP SAVE OTHERS. Now tell me....Honestly......How does that look, compared to the humans walking around on this planet today? If we take a step back from our humanity for one second, and be who we were before we came here...Imagine seeing all of the suffereing, the brutal violence, and KNOWING that ALL hatred and murder and resentment and lies and everything the laws of this land call a crime, come from pain and torment, weather you see it or not....Step back and see it from another view of this life...One where you are an observer, not a citizen. And you had an infinite heart of love and compassion, not tainted by this world, and your COMPASSION WAS FULLY INTACT, and you didnt doubt yourself or others......You would want to help. If you took every ' negative ' thing out of the equation in your emotions, character, mind, thoughts, and were perfectly pure...You would be first in line to offer the remedy. Im not sure how that progressed to us acting and being the way we are now, and I say with ZERO shaming of myself, or you. If we offered to do this, we must haev been built with what we needed to not only survive but learn our lessons in time, to still make a difference.
WE are so hard on ourselves. Why is that? God forbid we LOOK bad to others eh? Why cant we look bad? Because we were taught that ' perfect ' is what to strive for. Why were we taught that we need to be perfect? Because this world system gave us a look feel and taste of what they call perfect. When I ask people WHY they have to have the ' best new thing ' or see the best shrink, or even load their dishwasher the way they do, or dress the way they do, in their professional environment 99% of the time, I get the same answer ....They stop. Look down left and right. Then say ' Thats just how its done ', and quickly get out of there. See? Noone even knows why they do what they do, anymore. This world system, THIS BEAST SYSTEM, has taken everything that was supposed to be done out of LOVE and made it a REQUIREMENT, or your a damn loser. They force their education on you, as a kid, so you learn counterfactual, and just plain WRONG from the get go. Then for 18 years, you learn what is and is not acceptable in this world, and they always have the mind controlled ones there to say scornful things to you and mock you if you do not comply, and conform into their image.
In one of my book writing rampages, I need to write one that deals with each and every thing we do, and show you where it came from, and why we do it. I mean down to putting on your sock in the morning, bucko, or buckaroo haha. I am serious. We do things every day just because we are ' supposed do. '. Didnt you ever stop to think there is more to this life than to be born, get an education, so you can get a good job and feed the mouth of that beast system, ( and your family of course but that is a whole other type of beast hehe ) then go to college for even more twisted education, then get a REALLY good job, and the house and the car and the dog, and the 2.4 kids ( hee ) and then grow old doing the same things each and every day until you DIE. Cycle Wash. Rinse. Repeat. Wash. Rinse. Repeat. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
You were made for so much more. That is what I wanted to tell you. You are loved. WITHOUT any strings. Unconditionally. FOR ETERNITY.
I am SO sorry, you guys! I sincerely thought I posted today's prompts last night but I just thought "Hey, I didn't write my entry for the day on my personal diary" then realized I never posted today's prompts! I feel like a louse!
So for those of you still waiting, here is the prompt for today (I am only posting 1 today):
Imagine you are your favorite actor, musician or athlete. Who are you? Write about what it would be like to be in the spotlight.
NOJOMO is 10 days away from ending and some of us are dropping out! Let's keep writing! We've been doing so well!
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If your two year old touches an electrical outlet even after you tell them not to, you might slap their hand. This is a form of instantaneous feedback. Another form of instantaneous feedback is getting electricuted by the outlet. You can choose which one is better.
But in other instances, when situations are more complicated, is it better to apply a consequence straight away, or to delay the consequence?
Your son decides that he wants to draw all over the wall. You discover this and you tell him this is not acceptable. Now you have two theoretical choices:
1. Give him a consequence such as bed early.
2. Tell him there will be a consequence.
To this, I think the goal of the consequence is important to consider. We want to learn form consequences. If you apply a consequence immediately, your son will be able to evalute the consequence and come to terms with it. The cost of their decision to draw on your wall is going to bed early. Maybe this is fair or unfair, but as soon as they realize they can't change it, it is what it is. They may fight about it at bed time.
If you delay your consequnce however, the cost to their decision to drawn on your wall is much greater. The words "there will be a consequence, we can talk about what it will be later" leaves a question in their mind. Even though the consequence can be the same, they will spend much time thinking about the consequence. They will imagine the very worst consequence, and the very best consequnce. They will have to evalute what they did and think about what 'punishment fits the crime'.
The advantage to the delayed consequence is truly that they spend much more time thinking about what they did, and it becomes more of a problem to them. In my opinion, it makes it less likely that they'll do the same thing again in the future.
Every November is November Journal Writing Month, or NOJOMO for short. From November 1 through November 30 diarists write an entry a day. We here at Bloop make it a contest with a neat prize at the end.If you're interested in participating in the NOJOMO contest, please leave a comment here. You will be put on the Faves list so we can keep track of your progress. Every day a prompt will be posted. You do not have to use a prompt if you don't want to, they are there if you don't have anything else to write about.NOJOMO DAY 24
Prompt # 1
Write about your first kiss. How did you feel? Was it what you expected? And if you've never been kissed, tell us how you'd imagine it would go.