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by BloopSecrets

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Lost Little Girl

08/26/2011

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You have been through quite a traumatic upbringing and I think it has affected your self-image. You say you feel male, you are not a woman. You give yourself shots to change who you are. It is just a facade. You will never grow a penis, your breasts will not go away on their own, because that is not how God intended you. I wish you could love yourself for who you are, and not believe you have to change your sex in order to be yourself. You need mental help, not testosterone.

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.... Wow. This is just... wow.

You need to fucking learn a few things before saying shit about ppl thank you.

[love♥nikStar|0 likes] [|reply]

i think i know who this is about.

you need to grow a fucking pair

or let people live their own life.

[eleanor rigby|0 likes] [|reply]

Holy crap...

[Emily the StrangeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

judge much? if you really followed the bible "Thou shall not judge others" this is what your doing... TSK....

[The Dreaming Wife |0 likes] [|reply]

I don't think that's your fucking place to decide, you judgmental asshole. If God intended someone to be a certain way, then he'll damn well show himself and be explicit with his intentions.

[Anonymous SourceStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Prejudice is a symptom of fear. You should really confront your fears, rather than masquerading them as religion..

[Lady Lazarus|0 likes] [|reply]

Wow. It amazes me how utterly uneducated people are. If someone FEELS MALE but was physically BORN FEMALE then they are not denying themselves by trying to make the outside match the inside--they're embracing themselves more than ever. Obviously that concept is too far over your head, and that's okay, so just admit that you don't get it and move on rather than telling other people how to live their lives. Seriously.

[Hidden DepthsStar|0 likes] [|reply]

wtg dumbshit!!

[fearless♥love|0 likes] [|reply]

Get over yourself. You cannot even presume to know what goes on inside his head. What makes you the expert?

[BeautifulBrownEyes|0 likes] [|reply]

that's your opinion.
i don't think it's one you need to express to this person as clearly they do not feel the same way you do and just because you feel this way does mean it is the right way to feel/think- also it doesn't mean it's the wrong way.
If you're having trouble accepting this person for who they WANT to be, it's best to keep your distance from them as you risk being a problem in their life and it's not something they derserve

[♥ Nippy|0 likes] [|reply]

Wow.

So..your life is perfect and everything matches and has it's own little space so you feel privileged enough to tell others what is right or wrong for them?

I'm sorry we aren't all living up to your standards...not that it's any of your concern.

[Unauthorized|0 likes] [|reply]

This.

[KELLY.|0 likes] [|reply]

agreed.

[just samma;Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Pagan tag

If you are the Christian you propose to be then you will realise 'God" meant for us to be happy.
Get over yourself and stop hiding behind anonymous diaries.

[~*Pagan*~Star|0 likes] [|reply]

i'm so glad i'm not this ignorant and hateful.

[& skull.|0 likes] [|reply]

"God intended you?"

Suck my left nut. God's already sucking my right one.

[kein mitleidStar|0 likes] [|reply]

LIKE!

[just samma;Star|0 likes] [|reply]

AHHH HAHA, AHHHHHHHHH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA oh my freaking god i just lol'd so hard. Holy crap. Kein Mitleid you win the internet.

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

Really? Transgender disorder is real...how ignorant of you to presume that this person you speak of is mentally ill. I have no respect for people like you.

[Mommy_Bunny|0 likes] [|reply]

Maybe it's just me, but I believe the bible teaches that you shall not judge others. You are not God, you do not know what path he has set out for this person. Learn to open your mind and realize that you do NOT have a right to judge anyone. EVER.

I will say this though, it seems to me that you are jealous of the fact that this person is doing what they can to be who they truly are, while you can't. I don't judge you for that, some people just are not ready to handle that. But people should not throw stones in glass houses.

♥Severus♥

[Mistress Snape|0 likes] [|reply]

Sometimes people make the same choice (to switch genders) without the traumatic upbringing. And a lot of times, the people around them simply don't understand or agree with it. You don't have to, there's nothing wrong with that. But surgeries and injections are not something you just think of one morning and start doing. I'm sure this person has given the situation a LOT of thought, and if this is what they have to do to be comfortable in their own skin, who are we to tell them they shouldn't?

[Poetic Justice|0 likes] [|reply]

Another God lover who feels as though they are better then everybody else.
Perfect example of why I do not follow a religion.

If you feel as though they do not live up to your "perfection" or "God's" perfection, then maybe you should just leave them alone.

[canceroustearsStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Closed-minded, judgmental much? Take the stick out of your ass please, thanks.

[Greta GarbageStar|0 likes] [|reply]


I think you're the one that needs help...

[Khoquetishღ|0 likes] [|reply]

You are sick and I hope you get yourself out of this persons life as soon as possible. The last thing he needs is you in his life. I know way too many transgendered people who once they have transitioned they become much happier and live way better more functional lives after the change. Maybe you need to look inside yourself to see why this other persons decision bothers you so much.

[-Mal-|0 likes] [|reply]

If your "God" intended for this person to be a woman, they wouldn't feel like a man inside.

[Immortal Shadows|0 likes] [|reply]

LOLWhat the fuck? Get over yourself. Who are you to judge? People like you make me sick.

Don't Take Life Too Seriously

[Severus SnapeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Ok, I took a bit before writing an actual comment to this, because I didn't want to bash you, I want to help you.

What's hard to understand and comprehend isn't wrong, it's unfamiliar; and some unfamiliarity can be scary. You don't have to be scared about this. I think we all know who this is about, so I'm not going to mince words.

I had a talk with Fin about a week ago because I had been looking up T and had only come up with horror stories- people who changed their mind, people who committed suicide, people who were just miserable, and I needed to talk to him, and just check in. Of course, he was awesome about it and reassured me that he was fine and the horror stories are rare.

I'm hoping you're in the position I was in- concerned for his wellbeing and not being judgmental. If you have any questions about transitioning, talk to Fin, don't hide in unnecessary ignorance.

[Emily the StrangeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Why don't you just love him?

[abracadabra|0 likes] [|reply]

I don't even know where to start with this.

First of all, who exactly do you think you are? I AM MALE. I'm NOT a woman, and no, my breasts WILL NOT go away on their own because I'm getting surgery to remove them!

My upbringing was certainly not comfortable and happy, but a huge part of that is due to the fact that I've always known that this is who I am. I had to fight daily just to be who I am, and I had to fight ignorant, stupid, judgmental twats like you.

Also, the clitoris (OMG I SAID UH SEX WERD) does grow up to 2-4 inches and is quite like a penis. I also see a therapist regularly, so I am in fact getting mental help, so thanks for the heads-up on that one.

Really, I can't fucking stand people like you. I shouldn't even feed your ignorance, and I'd probably leave this well alone if you'd posted it in your diary rather than Bloop Secrets you ungodly coward. Show yourself so I can properly educate you, because clearly you know nothing of biology, sex, gender, and self-expression.

God DID make me this way, and luckily He gave me the tools in this world to be happy and be the man He created me to be.

Grow a pair. How weak.

[der/doppelganger|0 likes] [|reply]

My clitoris is totally well-hung. We should write a story about The Clitoris who saved Christmas.

[Emily the StrangeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

LOL I'M ON IT.

The Clitoris Who Saved Christmas. It will be an epic young adult tale of redemption and defying the odds.

[der/doppelganger|0 likes] [|reply]

I WANT IN ON THIS. BOOK ROYALTIES BITCHES.

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

It should also include my epic "Dong of Fury."

[kein mitleidStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Lol best character name ever.

[Emily the StrangeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

He gave me the tools in this world to be happy and be the man He created me to be.

Like X10

[**StephanieNicole**|0 likes] [|reply]

the one good thing about this entry are the comments. it shows that a lot of people are either educated on this topic, or just know its not anyone's place to be so closed minded and judgmental. i LOVE the Love that's being shown here =]

also im so thankful there are Dr.s and counselors who help people become who they already feel they are. ive seen a few shows about the journey people take to get to the point of being and feeling content and happy and its heart breaking to hear their stores of how unhappy they are just their own skin. to denied someone the respect and acceptance to be happy is wrong.

[♥DELBStar|0 likes] [|reply]

People like you make me sick

[Ufie Dufie|0 likes] [|reply]

HAHAHAHAHA holy shit this whole thing just made me fuckin LOL. I love people like the person who wrote this because honestly, if you can take someone like this seriously, you are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to serious about life. For really reals. I mean they're OBVIOUSLY a piece of shit, but for really reals i just lol'd so hard. I think it's pretty unabatedly clear who this person is talking about, and it's also GLARINGLY OBVIOUS that this person has never read ANY of their entries past "I'm a transgender". The person they are talking about has a serious amount of courtesy in that in ALL of his entries that touch on the subject of transgenders, he EDUCATES as well as he can. Which i seriously appreciate because i've learned a lot talking to him, he has sucessfully expanded my fragile little mind into a berserk gay pride war machine. In short fuck you. lmfao.

[Betch.|0 likes] [|reply]

I don't know what church you go to, but you're awful lippy for a woman..AHAHAHAHAHA

...no, seriously. Go make me a pie or something.

[Emily the StrangeStar|0 likes] [|reply]

LOL berserk gay pride war machine. I think we need hoodies that proclaim this. forthwith.

[der/doppelganger|0 likes] [|reply]

and I am one who loved him in flesh and heart.
I never felt as if I was laying with a woman.
Every bit of him was a man. Until you do that , you are missing a big puzzle piece.
It would have had more class and been informative, if you had just posted his page---even as a private entry. I don't know why you did it this way ??? It seemed so hurtful, cruel and judgemental.
I have been criticized with an alarming arrow here, but never on a "secret entry' such as this . Bad form dear. Let this be a lesson learned for you. Forgive yourself and move on. Appology goes a long way, a good place to practice it is here to Fin.

[abracadabra|0 likes] [|reply]

Many people who do give themselves shots to be one sex or another has had mental help. Maybe you are the one who needs mental help. You sound very unaccepting for those who are dealing with this issue. Imagine how you'd feel if you were born one sex but deep inside you always felt like you should be the other sex. I have a wonderful friend who deals with this. I accept HIM for who HE is. I'm not all close-minded saying he should stay a woman because that's what god intended for him to be. C'mon now and get a clue!

[Comment Whore™Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Holy crap. Love.

[*-.Stephanie.-* Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Wow. The hypocrisy in these comments is very telling. Make fun of, say stupid, nasty things to a person bc you disagree with them, yet they are the judgemental ones? You all need to grow up. It's pretty ridiculous that if anyone reacted to something u said the way y'all are reacting to this, the response would be, "free speech! Who are you to say anything?"

Telling someone to be happy about who you are is generally acceptable, even among the non-religious. The mention of God is the only reason any of you got y'alls panties up in a bunch.

We believe in God. We have a right to our opinion. Cope.

[American|0 likes] [|reply]

Having an opinion is fine. Personally I don't give two shits that they brought God into it. What pissed me off about it is that because the person they are talking about doesn't fall into their perfect little opinion they are wrong and have mental issues. By all means, have your own opinion, but don't be such a coward about it as to hide in a secret diary and spout out how they are acting out because of their upbringing or that they have mental issues to work out. And don't try to shove your opinion down someone's throat because you don't agree with them.

And if I remember correctly from a documentary I watched about Transgender people, they have to go through therapy before starting the shots and before the surgeries to make sure that they are in fact mentally stable.

With that said, seems like if all these other commenters are hypocrites, than so is the anonymous poster. Just sayin'.

~BLC

[MJ Writing|0 likes] [|reply]

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