To find a man as wonderful as J??
I am so in love with J...he is completely amazing! As Henry grows closer to him, he has been calling him his "extra daddy". J went for a walk tonight so that he could spend some time on the phone with his dad and Henry was getting worried because he was gone for a little bit. He was afraid that "someone was going to take J and he'd never come home to us". Poor kid lol. I tried explaining that because J is an adult, no one would take him. But, on a side note, Henry was a bit obsessed with death today so maybe that had something to do with it.
Henry has told J he "loves" him in the past 3 weeks because that is how Henry expresses his affection for people. Anyone he knows as more than an acquaintance, he "loves". lol J, being concerned about Henry's feelings and it being a new situation and all, was not comfortable in saying it back to him which I completely understood. But tonight, we were putting Henry to bed and Henry told J "love you, like you, want you" which is Henry's thing...I'm not sure how to describe it but he's been saying it for years now. And to my surprise, J said it right back to him...very cool. Made my heart just surge with love for J. The quickest way to a woman's heart is to treat her child well!
Then, to top it off, J just surprised me with a little weekend getaway next weekend. So, now I have something to look forward to all week! So exciting. J treats me like a princess which is very rare to find in a man these days and I am so happy that I have found my "prince". I am so very happy right now. I hope that some of my other dear friends can find their own happiness as well in the love department.
My love to you all!
P.S. I just outed myself on J's diary. LOL I know that at least one of my favorites is a favorite/friend on J's diary and his entries are all F/O now. So, at least one of you should be able to figure it out!