how, when, and where did you meet him?
i was 16, he was 18. we met in a pitch black park near my house.
was it love at first sight?
hardly. i couldn't see him. lol. no, we didn't start dating till about two years later.
what does he look like?
is he older or younger than you?
he's 26, so older.
what do you love about him?
he's very easy going. not much phases him. we have the same humour.
how would you describe your relationship with him?
recently, shakey. but we're better now.
would you change anything about him if you could?
i'd perhaps like it if he would stick to decisions he makes and was a bit less lazy.
what are his strengths?
he's a good leader, he's calm, helpful.
what are his flaws?
lazy, never sticks to decisions, very very forgetful.
has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? how did you get through it as a couple?
we broke up two weeks ago, which turned out to be a hugely retarded idea because we were miserable without each other. we got back together now. all good.
have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
we don't really fight much. people go to counselling for more than just fights though.
what is your favorite memory of him?
being so happy we couldn't stop laughing at a hotel.
do you share a song together?
not really. for a while "dry your eyes"
by the streets was sort of our song, back when we were seeing each other when we "shouldn't"
is he the "one"?
well, i'm not sure if i really believe in that, but he's definitely the one for now as long as he doesn't leave me or die.
how does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
i don't really have an idea of "perfect"
because it doesn't exist. he's fine though.