-How, when, & where did you meet him?
Met him online. The first time I met him in person, I went to his house to hang out and watch movies :]
-Was it love at first sight?
I think it was more like "holy shit, hes gorgeous! lets make babies." ahaha. but I can definitely seeing myself loving him in the future :)
-What does he look like?
6'1, gorgeous blue eyes, he's just my teddy bear.
-Is he older or younger than you?
Three years older, so he's 23 :]
-What do you love about him?
I love that we have absolutely everything in common, he's never given me a reason to be upset with him, and he always listens to what I say. No matter how stupid it is, or how much I'm rambling.
-How would you describe your relationship with him?
-Would you change anything about him if you could?
I'd change how much time he has to spare. He has to work a lot during the week, so I don't get to see him as often as I'd like, since he's worn out from work and goes straight to bed when he gets home.
-What are his strengths?
His personality. He's sarcastic, goofy, romantic, serious and cocky all wrapped up in one amazing package.
-What are his flaws?
I wouldn't call it a flaw per-se. I just am still getting used to his sarcasm, and occasionally I'll think he's serious about something, and take it the wrong way. I'm getting much better at it though, lol.
-Has he ever hurt you or have you ever hurt him so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
So far, no. The only thing that I would say "hurt" me, is when he doesn't talk to me for awhile. Because of past relationships, this freaks me out a little bit. I keep it to myself, because I know that I'm just over-reacting (because every time there has been an explanation, and a good one. not just "oh I'm busy." its, "Sorry, I had overtime at work" or something. Which happens often) but he can always tell when something is or has bothered me. I don't lie to him, ever. He's understanding of it though, which is all I can ask :)
-Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with him?
Uhm, haven't had one of those yet, thank goodness. But I don't think couples counseling is something I'd ever try. Maybe if I was married and we were contemplating divorce or something. But not while dating, not this early on :P
-What is your favorite memory of him?
So far, just snuggling up with him on the swing in his backyard, and starring at the stars. He lives a bit south of me, where it's more country-ish. There aren't streetlights there, so you can see everything. It's gorgeous to me, because where I've lived my whole life, is in the center of a city. I love nature so much :)
-Do you share a song together?
No, not yet.
-Is he the "one"?
I can see him potentially BEING the one. I'm not sure right now though. I suppose if I had to pick someone this SECOND, I'd choose him. ;D
-How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect man?
Honestly, he goes above and beyond.