I care more about the people I physically interact with every single day of my life more than I do about my online friends who I rarely talk to. I guess that makes me an asshole now.
I'm not worried about it. Smoking weed has done a lot of positive things for me in the year that I've been smoking it. It brought me to a lot of positive realizations about myself, and how I treat people, and what I can do to become a better person. It pretty much strips me of my depression, and helps me think, as long as I don't reach the point of diminishing returns.
I guess I'm doing alright.