Guest List (so far) with a question

Jeff's Side

Jeff's Mom (+1)
Bianca (+1)
Maxine (+1)
Linda (+1)
Sam (+1)
Paul (+1)
Flora (+1)
Jeanie (+1)
John (+1)
John Jr(+1)
Mary (+1)
Jim (+1)
Fred (+1)

TOTAL:: 26

My Side

Tracy (+1)
Bill (+1)
Jarrett (+1)
Autumn (+1)
Jeremy
Zach
Dustin (+1)
Donna (+1)
Vanessa (+1)
Josh (+1)
Summer (+1)
Bobby Jo (+1)
Kurt (+1)
Nancy (+1)
Sandy (+1)
Kayla (+1)
Meranda (+1)
Nina
Heather (+1)
Andrea (+1)
Lori (+1)
Paulette (+1)
Cheryl (+1)
Amanda (+1)
Jamie (+1)

TOTAL: 47

Mutual Friends

Amber (+1)
Sara (+1)
Sasha (+1)
Ann (+1)
Amanda (+1)
Stephanie (+1)
Eva (+1)

TOTAL: 14

GRAND TOTAL: 87.

I am not even sure if all of them will end up showing up or not, since they all have to travel out of state. PS..I am opening this up to my bloop friends, if you want an invitation to the wedding, its yours just let me know.


Question: How do you feel about a relitively kid free wedding? Some of these people have 4+ children and I really do not think I want that many kids at the reception. I obviously want our kids there, but I feel like its rude to not have other peoples kids there...so what do you think?