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Confused and beyond dazed with a start of a mid li
by James J. Gill

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How does a heart get super confused with love

12/04/2016

Yesterday was a weird and confusing day with my sepreation with my wife goes continues on I spent time with these women at my nefew bday party and I know both of them well but yet I like them both and honestly I could see myself with one of them once I know this marriage can't b saved anymore but the problem is witch one they have great qualities in them but they have tiny bit baggage to the huge dinosaur in the room but they have kids (one has a two yr old that's competlely hers and the other has a 3yr old that her idiot brother or family won't take care of) they both have jobs and they have good head on their shoulders but my heart is confused I need that major advice

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Take one thing at a time. Your marriage first.

[The Avon LadyStar|0 likes] [|reply]

You have quite a bit of baggage in that you are still married. If either one would entertain getting involved with someone who is still married and is so very recently separated then they would not have a good head on their shoulders. Also that you are just balancing them out like interchangeable pieces of which one has the more tolerable kid situation means you are not confused by love, but by lust. You do need major advice if you think any of this is a good idea. "He just got separated and my kid was ok and so here we are." Is not a good romantic story any woman wants to tell. Wait until you can do it the right way. This is just so half way. No love story should be half way.

[E. Quill|0 likes] [|reply]

Mate. This is not love. This is you trying to line up a replacement wife when you haven't finished with the one you've got. Give it a few months before you start worrying about who gets the job.

[Mojo Jojo|0 likes] [|reply]

I suggest at least a year of counseling to work on your anger issues and your problems with infidelity and lust before getting involved in any other relationship. You have an unhealthy perception of women, which would need to be looked at as well.

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