i'm not sure what the first statement was, i wasn't given that info to my knowledge, and i've just looked back to check again and the lawyer doesn't say, sorry. i was just given the information that it was contradictory. why don't you try asking the lawyer, maybe?
and again, i'll have to disagree with you about the bad mother thing. she didn't come onto this site, and make this thread bad mouthing the mother. she asked a simple question, waiting to get simple answers so she could be more informed. only when did she give some facts, did everyone start bad mouthing the mother. and only after everyone bad mouthed the mother did she start bad mouthing the mother. i assumed that was a result of everyone bad mouthing the mother, so she learned that this wasn't something that happens in everyday households with children. of course, the income comment is stretching it, but once we all start to bad mouth someone, its only a certain time before we will move from one subject of criticizing to another.
i could understand your argument if she immediately came onto this site and said how this mother was a horrible mother because she was young, and stupid and she need to know questions to break this mother down and get her to confess, but she didn't. she simply came on here, asking for a definition of a good mother, because the suspect kept muttering that she was "a good mother" and the lawyer needed a clearer view of what a good mother was to question this statement made by the suspect.