*sighs* i swear some people shouldnt even be parens...
if they keep an eye on the kid all times so they dont get kidnapped thats how the kidnapping happens sadly they dont keep an eye on the kids, dont trust anyone on the baby sitting till the kids are older so they dont get shooked or whatever. (if it was up to me i dont think anyone could trust anyone, maybe unless the grandparents and the parents since they grew up around that)
dont smoke around the children -- devlops ashama, put them in good education, safe evironment. put the kids in first even if the husband came first, be able to discpline the child, but not by slapping em or spanking them theres other way to discipline them without abuse. make them learn responsiblities when they are young such as 6 years old take out the trash or do little stuff and build the way up to great housing skills, responisblities, put the kids on the limit if giving a cell phone i would put only certain numbers they can call and get and mintues are important. be strict, fair punishments if they did wrong when they are older. get thier respect instead of being thier friend when they dontlisten to you
and for the mother suing the LAND LORD is CRAZy, i mean...she SHOULD have checked the tempture, therefore she didnt so that doesnt make her a good mother...
everyone has thier methods of raising kids, but it is SO embarrassing to see a mother with children with them such as two or three and they are UNCONTROLABLE at the store.. screaming crying
oh if ur going places as the church, or someplace thats quiet like a wedding, funeral, or school plays or whatever it is SURE as hell it is ANNOYING!!!! watch the church on tv, make your husband or the baby daddy take the baby while ur at a wedding would yah? and be sure the baby is clean ALL the time