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26 Dec 2008, 18:43
Stinkerbell
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and that effects my mothering skills how?....

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26 Dec 2008, 18:48
ganjagirl
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what "skills"?
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26 Dec 2008, 19:11
Stinkerbell
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The skills you obviously know nothing about.

So this is what I'm gathering. I'm a bad mother because I want a vacation. I'm a bad mother because I'd rather take my vacation while she's a baby rather than when she's older and would pitch a huge outragious fit. I'm a bad mother because my daughter has tried baby food. I'm a bad mother because my daughter is loved, changed, played with, fed, talked to, bathed, and is extremely healthy. And I am a horrible mother because I actually take care of my daughter.

Oh, and I'm a horrible mother because I would rather be immature online than at home:). How nice.
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27 Dec 2008, 00:33
~RedFraggle~
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I don't actually think anyone in this forum has mentioned your vacation. Except you.
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27 Dec 2008, 00:33
~RedFraggle~
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And for like the millionth time, no-one is saying you're a bad mother! Just that you've made some bad decisions... but it's not too late to change them.
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27 Dec 2008, 02:18
ganjagirl
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I said she was a bad mother.
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1 Jan 2009, 13:16
[matilyn&dylan'smom]
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darenda, seriously don't listen to them. dylan has tried a teeny tiny bit of whipped cream off my finger, and he's still kicking and screaming. i think you are a good mom because at least you are still with your daughter
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26 Dec 2008, 21:13
just samma;
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Rachel, it's like beating a dead horse. she's going to react the same no matter what you say.
& i'm sure this is the kind of reaction she's looking for.
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27 Dec 2008, 02:22
ganjagirl
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yeah, i know.
i just thought i would add another opinion in there.
maybe if she realizes that like EVERYONE is saying bad things about it...
i mean, the fact that there are supposedly all these entries about her in dear anonymous, should have said enough.

i'm over it :P
it's not my damn baby, poor thing :[
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27 Dec 2008, 00:32
~RedFraggle~
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I think perhaps what Elysium means by your immaturity is the way you're too stubborn to take advice from the people who REALLY know what they're talking about... the way you're prepared to put your daughter's life at risk rather than do what someone else is telling you. That is a little immature. A mature person would put their daughter first, not their ego.
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27 Dec 2008, 02:28
ganjagirl
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everything she says is immature.

if i was about to have a kid, and i was 19 and still willing to call myself "immature", i'd tango with a coat hanger.

an immature person should not be a mother in my opinion.
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27 Dec 2008, 04:54
just samma;
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hahahahhahahaha rach, you crack me up!
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31 Dec 2008, 13:09
Blank.Page
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that,s exactly what i,ve been thinking this whole time. glad you had the guts to say it
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26 Dec 2008, 22:14
. Spoon .
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the skills that you dont fend for your own child, pay for her food, her clothes etc... your mother takes care of her while you wilst yourself away to another part of the country to reason with your own feelings while leaving your child to be attended by another person. i dont know what "skills" you are talking about but im sure you dont have any because any normal sane mother wouldnt leave their child to follow a fling across the country.
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26 Dec 2008, 22:55
Stinkerbell
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Here's the funny thing. I looked for a job the whole time I was pregnant. Got a couple of calls, but never got the job. I am almost 7 weeks PP and just got out of doctors care, so that there is another reason I couldn't look for work. My mother does NOT take care of my daughter, but yes, my mother wants to keep my daughter here while I go across the country so I can follow my "fling".

And who said I was sane? Normal is way too overrated.

kthnks
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27 Dec 2008, 02:45
ganjagirl
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you can admit that you are immature and "not sane"?

damn.
i'd say that's perfect mother material, right there.
-rolls eyes-

peace out.
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27 Dec 2008, 03:24
Stinkerbell
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All I can do to your replies are smile from ear to ear.

You all are judging the girl online. Not the woman taking care of her child. Tough shit you don't know the real me:)
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27 Dec 2008, 05:39
Music God CJ Plain
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Just sit back and let it play out. We'll probably end up hearing about it on CNN and Nancy Grace before it's over. That's just my opinion though.
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27 Dec 2008, 11:55
Lindy
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she sounds like a moron. if shes doing something a doctor says is a bad idea thats fucked up.
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27 Dec 2008, 18:24
Tracie
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This whole thread is one drama filled waste of perfectly good net space.

Everyone has their opinions.

Bad mom? Whatever.
Good mom? Whatever.
Looney? Whatever.
Sane? Whatever.

Stick to your own damn beliefs and just let this whole thing go. Every single one of you
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28 Dec 2008, 04:38
Minda Hey Hey™
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I agree with the person above me.
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28 Dec 2008, 04:46
LoveBipolar Artfolio
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I also agree with Tracie. I disagree wholeheartedly with what Darenda is doing but I am not going to stand in her way of doing it. We all have told her our opinions and concerns and she has told us that she won't listen to them. She's had Charitys doctor telling her she shouldn't be feeding Charity anything but formula or breast milk but she chose not to listen to her own professional, what makes you think she'll listen to you? This whole thing has turned into such a stupid ass controversy seriously. Time to get over it and let it go.

Yes she shouldn't feed a newborn baby food.
Yes she shouldn't be leaving her 1 month old to chase after a boy she doesn't know.

Does she care what we think? No
Is she going to listen? Not a chance

Can we all shut up and leave her alone now? Please say yes we can. I'm sick of this forum.

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31 Dec 2008, 19:25
Fiat
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Oh my gosh this forum is back! Ughhhhhh.
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1 Jan 2009, 03:38
& skull.
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who the hell put this back on the front page? get your arse here so i can beat out your stupidity!
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1 Jan 2009, 04:17
Greta Garbage
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You two did! lol no srsly, IDK because I can't seem to figure out where the latest post went that made it come back from the dead!
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