The skills you obviously know nothing about.
So this is what I'm gathering. I'm a bad mother because I want a vacation. I'm a bad mother because I'd rather take my vacation while she's a baby rather than when she's older and would pitch a huge outragious fit. I'm a bad mother because my daughter has tried baby food. I'm a bad mother because my daughter is loved, changed, played with, fed, talked to, bathed, and is extremely healthy. And I am a horrible mother because I actually take care of my daughter.
Oh, and I'm a horrible mother because I would rather be immature online than at home:). How nice.