Alright. So, I've been reading up on all this drama for a while. Read the diary, read the forum, read the crap in the daily announcements.
After thinking about it for a while, I've come up with somewhat of an opinion on the situation:
Mom@19 or whatever your diary name is, the people who are commenting you about your daughter are just concerned for her. Thanks to you drawing all this shit out, throwing fits, and starting forums, everyone and their damn vibrator knows about you and your daughter's situation. You sit there and argue with people on the most ridiculous crap ever, and then whine about the advice you're getting, or not getting.
People are giving you ideas. Options. Hey! Here's an idea, open your damn eyes and pay attention! Some of the people here know what they're talking about! They're parents! They're doctors! They've dealt with the SAME SHIT AS YOU! So stop being so damn proud and either A, take some of the ideas and advice to heart, or at least talk to your daughter's doctor about them. Option B is to ignore everyone on this site, go on Friends Only, and keep bitching and moaning about how people treat you. Or, you could go with C, stay on Members Only (or whatever you're on), keep crying, and keep throwing fits.
I don't see any but C happening, because it seems like you're really enjoying this attention.
I'm sorry, but this situation has more drama than half the shows on television, and twice as much publicity.