I think you maybe pissed some people off when you became angry for a few days, and unfortunately people will always remember the negative stuff over the positive stuff.
Plus, I think meeting someone you have never met before will always start alarm bells ringing, for almost everyone. I agree that he seems genuine, very much so, but geez I'd be too scared to do it! However even if it's not something I do, I'm not gonna call you a terrible mother for deciding to do it, unlike others.
I also think some people who 'offered' advice went about it completely the wrong way. It's one thing suggesting new things, but it's another calling you names because you don't do things THEIR way, so I'm totally with you on that one.
And like you said in your diary, you don't hold back on what you write about. People hear about everything, so in comparison to other Bloopers who perhaps only write about the good stuff, it can make you stand out. Which is stupid as nobody on here is perfect. But I know I for one don't tend to write about shitty things that happened to me in here, and I'm sure there are quite a few others.
I must just say, I really took issue with the really rude entry on there. The one littered with swear words. I think if they're going to carry on that diary, then shit like that shouldn't be allowed. There's one thing dissing someone in that diary, but it's a whole other thing when they start calling you names. The amount of entries in that diary that call people fat and ugly is disgusting. Those people need to take a good, long look at themselves first before slandering other people. I have self-esteem issues myself so I have a super big problem with that kind of crap.
ANYWAY lol enough of me, those are just my thoughts on the whole deal, without trying to take either side too much. I hope it perhaps sheds some light into it for you.