I take everything with a grain of salt. Like Madetoshine said, no one has any idea of what is really going on. They could be making Jon out to be the victim, and he really is a jerk. Although, it tells a lot about is character to just be pushed around like that all the time. I think the media is blowing this thing way out of proportion, the only thing they care about is making money. I also feel bad for the children, the older girls are probably hearing all about this at school. Also, Kate's brother and sister in law came out and talked to a magazine and the stuff they say is so mean. I guess they don't even talk to Kate anymore, so I think they did this to get back at her. The brother and his wife said that they were doing it for the children, but if they were really thinking about the children they wouldn't say anything so that the story could die down a little bit. They just told the story for some money. I love Jon & Kate though, I hope they pull through this and if stuff like this is really happening, to get better for the children.