For those who don't think Mommy needs "me time" that using a daycare would require, then don't do it. But don't judge someone else just because they do. Like I said, two or three (or more) days a week using a daycare when Mommy is at home (and child is pre-preschool) just says that Mommy might as well be working anyway. But one day a week (MAYBE two, at the MOST) for some "me time" or even a chance to get caught up on housework that just isn't getting done, no big deal. If you don't want to do it, don't. And just wait to get your me-time when Daddy comes home from a long day at work. Yeah, he's REALLY going to be happy about doing it. He's going to want his relaxation time, too, just like you. And if you decide THAT is the time you get your me-time, and he isn't feeling up to it because of an extra-hard day at work, and you make him do it anyway, you're not going to have a very happy home.
And I have noticed that there are some people responding negatively about such Mothers who have said themselves "It really pisses me off when you judge me for decisions I have/will make as a Mother. I don't do it to you, so don't do it to me," and yet here they are judging other Mothers for a decision THEY'VE made.
And for those who have never had children? Wait until you have children before you make grand statements as you have been making.