I really don't know why people just can't seem to accept things as they are. If someone wants to do something for themselves, for a second or because they could POSSIBLY deserve it, then why is it hard to accept that? We have kids, and some want AND need to have time for themselves. There isn't anything wrong with that. Your opinions are valid and respected, but because people don't do things your way, doesn't mean that anyone has to get childish and start offending people or assume people are just sitting on their "ass". Each situation is difference, unless there is some major damage being done, what is the problem?
You put your child in daycare, well you have your reasons.
If you don't, then you have your own reasons as well.
See, how easy it is?
Besides, sometimes there are single parents (like me) who really just need some time OUT. OH because I have a child means that I could never have sometime BECAUSE i chose to HAVE my baby? Well, that's your lifestyle, and although my child comes first, I do have some time for myself when I could.