I know it! I mostly join those sites to point and laugh and then delete my account but I am talking to someone semi-normal on okcupid right now, given in my profile I did put "I have a beautiful tabby cat named Jasmine, she is 9 and very smart, knows a creeper when she see's one. lol" I use my intuition to weed out the bad ones and so far found one decent person so far. I'll take my brother with me to meet him of coarse! If my brother don't like them then there usually IS something wrong with them.