Because your diary is FO, and I have the 'if I can't see you, then you can't see me' setting turned on.
I have this setting on so I can see if my layouts are being used correctly, and so I can suggest things and help people out if the layouts get a bit broken. And also just to check how they're being used generally, whether people are mangling them all up, whether people are removing my credit/link, and so on... Pretty much all my layouts incorporate photographs I've personally taken, and so I take a lot of pride in my work and hate seeing it go to the dogs. xD
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