Its been a few weeks. Trying to get this kid graduated and everything and my life has been hectic to say the least. I dont think i've picked up this computer in like 3 weeks, except to pay bills?.... who knows
SO... the car. My mother was in an auto accident about 3 years ago, totaled her car. Saved the payout and bought a new one, out right, no car payment. So when she had her stroke my sister and i took over different power of attorneys for her, my sister is medical and i am financial. I pay her bills, i talk to her financial advisor, i own her property. My father has a gambling addiction to Pablo Escobar proportions and is not trusted with her money.... and honestly my sister is just a theif and i wouldnt trust her either. So i've been worried for a little while that while illegal, if my father needed money, he would sell her car. Her car, that is in HER name and she pays the insurance. So after talking to an agining attorney and local law inforcement it was confirmed that i was allowed to take possesion of her car. NOW..... my plan is to park it at my house, keep it maintained and if she goes home to drive, give it back. If not, sell it and use the money from it to keep her in the nursing home. That has been my plan since she went in the damn place.
I brought this up to my sister, told her i just needed to find the title, and call it a day. Told her i planned to park it here and the only time i'll move it is to get it inspected and to the new house when we move in a few months. The words "I'm taking the car" were no sooner out of my mouth then she yelled I'LL TAKE IT!..... no, no you will not. She told me that she wanted it so she could get rid of her car and she wouldnt have a car payment anymore, and it just makes sense. So i asked why i wasnt allowed to keep it and get rid of MY car payment?..... yeah, yeah thats what i thought.
We had a talk about finances, actually it was more like i checked my mothers bank account after my sister had "come for a visit" and come to find out that 650 was missing..... BRUH, i told you if you were going to take money you needed to clear it with ME. "well she was very coherent and we were talking".... and the day before that she was planning a wedding for my dad and his ex wife and having an indepth conversation with my very real but very dead cousin, uncles, aunts, and my grandparents.....like when she stops seeing people outside in the tree talking to her and talking about the family member who is talking to her that has been dead for 20 years we can talk about her being coherent enough to spend money. Apparently when my sister goes to see her they go through her finances, and when i yelled at her for taking 650, and how am i supposed to pay storage and BOTH rents with 3000 (heres one for you math nerds, 1500 + 1500 =......) let me enlighten you, its 3000. i would of had 23$ left to pay for a 200$ storage space.... and all i get is "she said it was ok"..... yesterday she said her grilled cheese was floating on a plate of water, can we stop taking moms musings for face value?
it went on that shes jealous because mom and i have a good relationship (jfc maybe because i'm not almost 50 hitting her up for money every 30 seconds and i actually enjoy her company?) and that her son and i (hes 27) have a better relationship.... sorry? hes more trust worthy than you are?
This is going to be a long lifetime if my mother is destined for the nursing home. Maybe just throw everything to my sister and walk away, and let that ship implode. She is 47 y/o. Has always lectured ME on being independent and needing to do things for MYSELF and here she is getting my mother to pay her 2000 a month so she can live. ALSO i had noticed that my mother was getting these phone calls from an insurance company, and it isnt hers. She said she had no idea who they were so i called them and told them to take her off their call list she doesnt have an account. Come to find out, she does, its for my sisters car, of which she pays the payment for sometimes.....
i didnt ever want to know any of this. Can we just go back to 3 months ago when my mother was throwing thousands of dollars at my sister, screaming at me to just take the 50$ she feels like she owes me (balance of power mayhaps? ) and i dont have to know how much she financially helps my sister.
on the same tangent..... if my sister continued to take the same amount of money from my mother, but it was from her inheritance it would be enough for 6 years. Then she would be fucked.....
welp anywho..... hope everyone has a wonderful monday, holiday, whatever this is for you
-Wasp
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