I'm in the middle of a conundrum. I have control over my mothers finances, namely because the rest of my family that could be are complete numerical morons. My father has a gambling addiction and my sister well..... my sister is a spoiled rotten brat? shes always had everything handed to her. Over the past 4 years that shes moved and lived out of state my mother has been paying her rent.
My mother is in a nice new facility , as of yesterday. I talked to crazy joe (her financial advisor ..... and if you get that refrence, 10 points to hufflepuff) and she said basically she has X amount of money. He told me numerous times "i told her not to live to high above what she can, she doesnt like to listen. " I told him i know. In the last 30 days she has given my sister over 5k and this is the first month where the bills, that get paid BY ME, have been tight. My sister takes $300 from her every time she comes up. When i mentioned crazy joe and his "well she has enough money to live for a few years, but well have to look at spending" and my sisters voice changed to a whimper of...... "what does he know.....:" which was code for "You cant do that to me, you cant cut me off.
So my conundrum comes in the form of, how mean do i want to be. Do i want to have the hard conversation with her of , if mom doesnt pull out of this, you need to get a fucking job ,because i'm going to fucking cancel auto pay on your shit. That will go over like a fart in church as I just asked why my mother is paying for 2 HBO subscriptions (her own and my sisters) when it could be 1 and maybe she should switch to a free music service (her amazon music is 12$) and i got met with ThAt Is My OnLy EsCaPe FrOm ThIs DoNt TaKe It AwAy (which im not, i was just saying heeeeeey maybe we should cut corners? so she has more money? since you know you took 5000 from her last month, and that doesnt even include the 150 i put on the discover card for you.....
I was tasked this morning with talking to the financial advisor and being told that i didnt do enough , and didnt ask the right questions and now she feels like she doesnt know anything. COOL. I dont need you to know anything..... im just in a horrible mind state currently.....
my brain is soup and i am a fork....
i dont know if anything made sense in this.....
hope ya'll are having a magical friday
-Wasp
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