This is going to be as short as possible. My laptop isn't due to be back till 9/3. Grr. I see that my attempt at paragraph spacing backfired yesterday. I will try and do long entries at the library from now on. I know how frustrating it is to read one huge paragraph.
Okay, so when Nikki was working for me I didn't treat her bad. I would even buy her little gifts because she needed SOMEONE to be nice to her (that's why her comment about everyone walking all over her STUNG). She has a marker obsession, so I bought her a package of colored Sharpies (nice ones too!). Yesterday, when I went to Target before telling Nikki I quit, I found her the perfect gift. She LOVES Hello Kitty and loves duct tape. I found a roll of Hello Kitty duct tape for $4, so I bought it. I also gave her this silver bracelet that has the scripture about having faith as small as a mustard seed on it, with little mustard seeds inside these hearts. It's a beautiful bracelet. But, I'm an atheist, and she's a devout Christian. So I gave it to her (it was a gift to me when I was going to church years ago). I also bought her a big ass pack of earplugs so she didn't have to listen to Tasha and RW fight. I let her bring her little rat dogs to my house all the time. Even though they were in my room chewing up my panties, tore up my memory foam mattress pad, and one of Tyler's shoes. I didn't ask her to replace anything. I just asked her not to have the dogs anymore. She still called once a week to see if she could have the dogs over. And one of them chewed up the pad again. One of them also bit David on the leg. Get this- SHE BLAMED DAVID!!! David swore he just walked in the door and the dog attacked. I believe it because I've walked in the door and he's but my legs. I had on jeans though so he didn't get me. I could have had the dog put down! So I've been MORE than a good boss/friend. I've been nothing but gracious. Oh, and every time I came home I was out of SOMETHING. Mostly milk which is a big deal to me, but also paper towels and cleaning supplies. It was irritating because I would go to use sonething and it was gone. She didn't tell me I was out. She wouldn't text me to tell me to pick it up. That really pissed me off. But I shut my mouth.
Okay, so remember how she asked what pay she was expecting? Well I pay her 120/week. It was originally for 4 hours a week, 10 hour days, both kids. Well, the same week David started school I dropped my hours to three 10 hour days. So one kid, three days a week. And the ONE day I needed her to get David ready for school (when I went to the ER) she was sleeping and he almost missed the bus. I didn't get mad. I told her no harm, no foul.
Okay, now remember she asked what pay she was getting? Well, (keep in mind I'm on percocets and muscle relaxers) I thought yesterday, the day I quit, was Sunday. Well my pay period, which is also her pay period, is Sunday through Saturday. I paid her on wednesday, which she was paid through Saturday. SInce I thought it was Sunday when I quit, I thought I owed her for one day.
Well, I was talking to Daniel today, and was talking to him about how much I should pay her for the one day. He said $20. Well, I told him she came over with her pity party and said she was hoping for enough for a hotel room. Well, Motel 6 is $49.99/night now! Then she said she was thinking $30. So, me and Daniel are discussing what to pay her, and I tell him about my trip to the ER, she didnt even take care of the kids. She just slept the whole time. So I just figured that I didn't owe her anything and that we were square.
Then it hit me. TODAY is Sunday! I quit on the last day she was paid to! And then she had the NERVE to ask me for $30!! I actually told her that I might get her $50 on Friday to help her out! I dont know ANYONE that doesn't keep track of their money and when they get paid. So she KNOWS she's paid up, she's trying to score some extra money that she isn't owed. I'm pretty excited to tell her she's paid up. 3 days a week. I worked Monday, Friday, and Saturday. She watched Tyler for two hours on Wednesday. But only watched him till 10 AM Friday, and she just slept the whole time. So we're square.
So, I am having problems with iTunes today. I put $30 worth of iTunes gift cards on my account yesterday. Well I bought 8 tracks, and iTunes charged one to my gift cards and tried to charge the rest to my credit card. So now I can't download anything and I need to go on iTunes and remove my cc so my gift card will be charged. Well, I have to do it in a computer. So, I called Nikki and asked if I could use Tasha's iPad (asked if it was okay with Tasha) for five minutes to remove my cc off of my iTunes account. I also had Nikki's hat. She said she would ask Tasha and call me back. Do, I just walked over there because I would have to return Nikki's hat anyways. I knocked on the door and RW let me in. Nikki told me that tasha said it would be okay but to wait till everyone ate dinner because it was too hectic at that moment. Well, I was standing inside the house. RW was on the couch, Tasha was in the kitchen, and ALL of the kids were outside playing. So what exactly was too hectic? Okay, whatever. So I left. It's 11:23 at night and I've been completely blown off. What ASSHOLES! EVERYTHING I have done for them, all the drama ice been involved on because of them, the gifts I gave ASIDE from how much I was paying for, and the the bullshit drama and problems I listened to, and I can't use iTunes for FIVE minutes? Really? I even texted Nikki today: Are you feeling better today? Or are you just not speaking to me? And she didn't say anything about being upset with me. I thought AT LEAST they would be straight up! GUESS NOT!! So, now I know not to EVER do any favors or anything nice out of the kindness of my own fucking heart. I really wanna post done nasty passive-aggressive comment on my Facebook where Nikki can see, but I won't. My son still play with Tasha's kids, and I don't want Nikki or Tasha taking anything out on David. But, if Nikki doesnt move out by Tuesday, and says something about the money, I will tell her that she was paid up. I'm not going to be used
So, does everyone know here that when I feel mistreated, I like revenge? Well, I feel my ex-boss was being pretty shitty. So, I've started my revenge. This is my Facebook status today: I want to apologize to all those that my decision yesterday effected. I never wanted to put anyone in a compromising situation, and I pray that no friendships are severed. If they are, than that's a consequence I'm willing to accept. (That was for Nikki before she blew me off. And Cherri, the other morning girl because she's going to have to cover my hours and hear Teresa bitch)
Please understand that I could no longer work for a conniving woman who had me carry out her dirty work to see who was talking shit to who. I was the one who suffered the consequences of her actions. I was the one who knew everything about the employees, who was getting fired, and I couldn't handle it anymore. No longer could I work for someone who had no idea how to be assertive, wouldn't follow through on consequences (had even asked me to fire someone for her!) but then wondered why her employees wouldn't listen to her. If you can't manage, then step down. Don't keep your position to spite someone else.
All I needed was an excuse to leave, and a "joke" about selling tobacco to minors is NEVER something to joke about. To be reprimanded over something I was trying to watch out for you over, was absolute BS. I'm glad I walked out and that store was the main stress factor for me.
To the employees who are on my account here, watch your back!! She has conspiracy theories on ALL of you, and none of you are secure in your jobs. You guys can show her this all you want, I can answer any question you have and answer it correctly. She will know what I'm saying is the truth but will deny it all the way. I suggest you mind your p's and q's and look for a better job in the meantime. I was there for 1 1/2 years, I think I know a thing or two 
Well, the newest girl that works there, Janena, is on my Facebook. And I REALLY like her, I'm hoping me and her keep in contact. Well, she saw my status and texted me: Oh my god heather its Janenai just read facebook do I need to be careful too...please be honest with me.
So I called her. I told her that Teresa thinks she's conspiring with Linda (the manager across the street) to get Teresa fired, and that Linda actually sent Janena in undercover as a spy. That Teresa had me tell Janena lies to trap her into saying something to contradict herself. Janena asked if I had any proof in text messages. I told her I did and I was more than happy to forward them to her. So we hung up and I forwarded her all the shit talking that was done about her and other employees. I haven't heard back from her, I think she's in shock. I think I'm going to write a letter to the owner advising that he should find a more qualified manager. What do you guys think? I guarantee that she hasn't told Larry the truth about why I quit. I'll post the letter after I write it.
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