the sorrows of morning...

Good morning I just read your last entry, because I was curious. I think your best bet is to face the facts that he is not the one, and move on. You should sit down and tell him how you feel. If you can't express to him how you feel, then that's a huge sign, too. Why stay in a relationship with someone you can't talk to? I'm really quite angry about how he talks about your family, and that right there would be a deal breaker for me.

It's obvious you love him, but would you rather break up with him now, or hold out, and end up finding someone better and break his heart later down the line? Either way, a break up seems inevitable. It'd be better to do it sooner than later. Get out of the relationship and live a little. Have fun, flirt, be single. You're still young, don't let someone like him hold you back.

Hopefully you make the right decision. Sooner is better than later with this one. It may not be easy, and being single sucks sometimes, but it's better than being tied down to a relationship that's not really going anywhere. I speak from experience.

Take care, hon, and I apologize greatly if this comment offended you in anyway.

J♥me

RYC: *snoooort* Oh, God. I could picture her looming over me while I'm trying to sleep, only I can't because of some sense of foreboding. It was late and cold and I'd have to walk cross campus to get to the library, which is unfortunate. I don't think she could have heard me bitching over her music though. Hah. I will eventually. She has a PC though so her speakers go much louder than my laptop ones do though. A lost battle.

Flip a coin. Seriously, I'm not being trite. Assign the possibilities and flip a coin.

Then what you do is think about how you feel when it lands on one possibility - are you relieved or disappointed? Does it feel right? If it makes you squirm think about making the opposite choice.

There will always be times when you genuinely get squirmy on both, in which case lots of time and self analysis is probably the way forward. Otherwise this might bring to the front how you really feel about it.

RYC: Yep, it's my thyroid.

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Welcome to Bloop!!!!

good luck with all that! I have no idea on this! Sorry...

~*Princess*~

It depends on the sort of person you are. I'm upfront and I would confront him. If he refused to talk to me then I would come out with it &tell him that I'm moving on in my life and we're done as a couple, yo! Don't text or message him about breaking up; it's better if it were said by word of mouth.
Don't hold back.
Be honest and express yourself, =].

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