We are trying super hard to get into this house we looked at the other day. We love it so so much. Getting out of this hellscape will be the best thing for us i believe. We've lived here for 4 years now and so far every year, theres been a shooting pretty damn close to our house. Last halloween there was even a cop that showed up on my doorstep wanting to know if we got any camera footage (we didnt) of the guy running away. It was insane. There were 2 kids (that i know of) that have gotten killed on their way home from the highschool down the street (the one middle kid used to go to)..... theres gangs and drugs, and i'm pretty sure the guy who parked in my parking spot yesterday was here to buy or sell drugs to my neighbor. We live in a row of houses where the neighbor we are attached to, the neighbor across the alley from them, the neighbors attatched to them and the ones across the alley from us are all related somehow, plus the ones that live a couple houses down in the back. We feel very out of place here, and this was never supposed to be a permanent thing... but 4 years later, here we are. Found an amazing house, for less money with more stuff (attic, hoses, a back and a front porch, a garage, a place for me to have a garden...... our neighbor even has a pear tree (which maybe when i get my garden going i can trade for some pears), fingers crossed for this.
My sister is a twat waffle..... she keeps insisting i prepay for funerals, which i cant because the money isnt there, and also i know for a fact that funeral homes do payment plans. She tells me that i just need to cut a check now, but when i got on their website it says i can pay it overtime, its not like shes fucking dead right now....... ALSO shes planning a trip up next week to see mom...... i havent seen her in a month and i'd like to keep it that way.
The "father" who shall not be named, burned through 1500 in a week.... A WEEK. and my sister has weasled me into continuing to pay for the electric and the water, i just want this nightmare over with.
She swears that mom left money aside for the man who shall not be named. she SWEARS.... because she'd never leave him like that, with nothing. Yes, yes she would. Hes manipulative and a horrible narcissitic toxic piece of crap.... she absolutely would.
Also, myself and moms hospice lady friend got down to the root of the problem yesterday. She doesnt so much mind TALKING to her husband.... she minds when hes there and touching on her and all of his i love yous and crap. They have been married 51 years this year, and in all of my 40 on this planet, i've never EVER seen them be loving towards each other. No kisses, no hugs, no cuddling, no hand holding, not even spending time in the same dang room. As far as i can remember he would come home from work, sit down and watch my sister and i clean, get dinner from mom when she came home and cooked it and then went upstairs to play video games. She would go upstairs after a few hours of us, or taking care of my nephew, or whatever, but she hadnt even slept in the same room as him for at least the last 15 years. So why are you starting with this i need to touch you and i need to love you bullshit..... no, just no. Shes not dumb, she can spot bullshit a mile away. You want her money and thats it. You dont get to pretend to love her when shes on her way out, thats for chumps and assholes.
Today, i am trying to get ahold of Crazy Joe and get her money moved so i can pay her living bill, and toy with the idea of calling the funeral home, because i feel like i'm being lied to..... she usually does anyway.
Have a wonderful day everyone.
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