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I know we've never talked before so it's not my place to say anything, but if your husband is saying that you should put your daughter up for adoption then I think it's time to start re-thinking your marriage. It'll suck being divorced twice by 23 but it's kinda more selfish to stay with them because of your pride than it would be to keep your baby because of your financial troubles. I mean that in the nicest way possible though. Not saying that you should keep the baby if you two split, you should do whatever you think is best for your baby and yourself. But staying with someone who thinks that way doesn't seem like the way to a happy home.
Besides, your daughter will eventually notice the way her Dad feels about her -- Whether he shows it up front or not.
Best of luck to you, I hope you work everything out for the best.
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