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Booger Monster
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Yay for the surprise, but booooo for you having to pay for it. I hope you like it though
Sorry to hear that you think Kris is "up to no good" I hope for your sake he's not!!
Sometimes it helps to talk them about your worries, but I guess when you're ready you'll be able to discuss it.
Feel better soon
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[eljaih_tregea]
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Still Can't Deal
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yay boogers for 5 days. lol. im sorry. i wish i knew something to say to help you feel better about the situation. as far as your job goes that really blows your boss is that way. maybe you can find something you enjoy doing and carrying a gun sounds pretty cool i guess lol. the house crap stinks.i know that all too well not as badly as your describing it. its a wonder when they did the home inspection before you bought the house they didnt check that stuff. i know they did when we bought ours.
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[.♥ Luvn my 3.]
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Can't Even Deal
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Welcome to Bloop =]
It sounds like he's a scrounger living off your kindness. I don't think it's selfish of you to feel this way. If I were you, I'd toss him out unless he gets a job, coughs up the mortgage money he had stolen {don't believe the lies!} and starts contributing to the house-work, payments, etc.. He may be pretty & optimistic, but you shouldn't be living with guilt & irritation.
Good luck with everything & I hope you'll be in a better situation.
"the storm is coming."
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[-LOKI]
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Can't Even Deal
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Ugh.. that is a really tough situation.. I wish I had advise for you.. i do wish you luck and clarity in this though
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[CamFatale]
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Can't Even Deal
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Just because you invited someone into your house doesn't mean the invitation has to last forever.
Telling him to move out is reasonable; 1OO% so.
Being pretty, looking after the kids and being positive (hell, having a 'free ride' will bring out 'positivity') isn't good enough reasons to let him keep mooching, especially with what's hanging out in the cons section.
Him being out of a home and it affecting his child: Sure, that really sucks. But, it's not your fault.
Who decides to shove off job searching only to play video games all day? Who decides to lie and most likely steal from the hand that feeds?
Basically, his decisions are what's going to affect his child. You shouldn't fork over your money, your sanity and your life to keep you from feeling guilt that isn't yours [no matter how you feel like it will be].
Don't bind yourself to someone that's starting to make your skin crawl. Trust your gut about the missing money. Trust your mama bear feelings when it comes to him chugging the milk / using up what should be for the children.
It's your life, you should be selfish with it.
/unsolicited advice from an internet stranger.
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[holdtehpickles ]
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