bad to worse.....

I've been there.. i provoked more than a few ass whoopins. lol. glad yall are getting help. Hope it all works out.

[twistedlady]

bad to worse.....

ya i was in one for several years as well, so i know the warning signs. i also know my partners ex wife, and after speaking with her about everything, and having her be completely honest with me about things they went through, and talking with the partner, i have decided to give him a chance, as well as myself.... we both had our roles in what happened last night, so we are both going in for help, today we registered for services through mental health... he made the calls to go in, but he knows as well that i wont tolerate a future episode, i will not be a victom of abuse again and he knows this.. i wont defend his actions, at the same time i cant say i didnt have a play in it as i should never have hit him.

[LostGirl1989]

bad to worse.....

Oh sweety.... seriously read the 1st few entries of my diary. I was abused fir 20 yrs. Ran finally!!!! Get out!!!!!! There is better!!!

[twistedlady]

Trouble within the home front

i make everything i do or desire verbal, and plain as can possibly be. might as well spell it out on paper, which i have also done. :/

[AMH]

Trouble within the home front

I could not read this entire entry...it hurt too much. I know someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and wont do anything about it. At least you are trying.

[A RedSox Fan]

Trouble within the home front

Wow.. I'm sorry ur goin thru this. Wish I had some over powering advice but I gots nothin. Sounds very frustating.

[twistedlady]

Trouble within the home front

maybe remind him that you value his opinion and advice on a lot of things. He could be playing the "your dog, your decision" card in order not to step on your toes. You want to work together with him on a lot of things he doesn't think is important enough to do so. So reminding him that his thoughts are very important is probably best. And you might have to keep doing it until it sinks in. One of the reason he is in your life is to bounce ideas upon, and to be there for random advice. How long have you been together? If he is still having ex issues in his head, perhaps marriage now may not be the best idea. You'll force each other to be together causing resentment. take it slow. Enjoy each other now. If you love him, show him. If you are too emotionally drained from the relationship, and you think it's just going to continue to stay like this, then it's probably a good idea to end it sooner rather than later to avoid chaotic drama and even more heartache. You are an Aquarius like me. We are over thinkers and prone to anxiety. Make sure you are not factoring in that. We are also extreme lovers and put our heart into everything. .... ps.. welcome to Bloop!

[ ✌-mel-☮]