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by Ivy Divine
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In The Secret Garden
by Ivy Divine

232 comments

>.< Summertime Life and Work

sounds like you and your little family are doing well.
Your little one is so smart.
I hope you find some new kids to mold. You are great at it.
Good luck on the wedding. I'm happy for you.

RYC: the negative people in my life are the people around me, as I explained but if I had that special lady, these other people wouldn't be in my life as much and I would be able to tallorate them or they would be nicer.
my search goes on for my princess

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< VAY. CAY. TION. BEGINS NOW!!!

Wow, that sucks that family are so bad at giving you notice. That sounds so lazy, rude and thoughtless. Sorry that you have to put up with that.

How's your daughter doing? I bet it's hard to believe that she will be ten! I have no idea what Minecraft is, though I've heard about it a lot and seen different advertising things for it. It's really popular with kids, I guess. (I feel so old! haha)

I hope you guys had a good 4 day weekend! <3
It's great to hear from you again!

[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< VAY. CAY. TION. BEGINS NOW!!!

that totally sucks about the family... maybe you can talk to the mother and give her some friendly mother to mother advice about putting her foot down and not letting her kid walk all over her.
As for the father, there's no hope it sounds like.

woo hoo for your little girl turning 10 soon. Suck a big age. Double digits. Well, at least it was a big one for me. I remember my b day party that year and what I got for a gift.

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< All Of The Changes, So Many Of Them

wow, what a beautiful life you have found for yourself.

RYC: I need to find my life, I have yet to find it. Hope I do soon before I go crazy

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< All Of The Changes, So Many Of Them

I'm glad everything is going well

[HorrorVixen XO]

>.< So Long And Farewell My Dear Old Life

RYC: John and I broke up a few months ago. I met Gary in mid September on an online dating site, Oasis Active. I messaged him telling him how much I enjoyed his profile (it was seriously one of the few intelligent and attractive ones on there). We had our first date on the 21st of September and it went really well, obviously. I've been spending most weekends with him.

[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< So Long And Farewell My Dear Old Life

I am so glad to hear that you are still so happy with your boyfriend.
It must be so nice to feel a sense of security and stability in your relationship!
Your daughter sounds a lot like me when I was her age! I was reading at about that level and my mom was taking me to the library every weekend. Lol. What kind of books does she like to read?

It's so great to hear that you are happy...and that landlord at your old apartment sounds retarded. Glad you got out of there!

How was Thanksgiving? I really can't wait to get a Christmas tree with Gary...of course, it will be a small one, but I don't mind. His dog would probably eat it (he ate my birthday candle, lol, he'd probably eat anything!)

Good to read something from you! Missed you around here!

[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< So Long And Farewell My Dear Old Life

it's wonderful to hear what you have been up to.
I'm still holding on to hope that what you have is what I'll have someday and hopefully with Karen but you never know where life takes you.

RYC: thanks for reading, it wont get better untill I move because my parents are who they are and they're only getting older...lol

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< It's Been A While!

I'm so glad to see things are going well for you. I hope you find something you like as far as work soon. . 5 months is great. So glad to see you are still happy in love.

[-st☆rless-]

>.< It's Been A While!

First of all, YAY!! Glad you're writing again.
Second of all, I know you've commented me a couple of times. I've been so distracted that I keep forgetting to reply! Sorry about that. But I have thought of you and hoped you and your daughter were doing okay.

Aww, Happy 9th Birthday to your daughter!!

Glad to hear you and your man are doing well and still together



[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< It's Been A While!

YAY! for an update. I've been wondering how you've been and if you disapeard from bloop altogether

that sounds like a really cool b day party... you're an awesome mommy

work...sucks. but hey, at least it pays your bills

5 months? hmm it seems like a lot longer than that
it's so awesome to hear that it's going so well
no relationship is perfect but yours is pretty great.

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< Dental Work, Boyfriend Weekend, Busy Week Plans

I've never had to have a root canal, but I've heard terrible things about them. Ick. I'm sorry you are still in pain!

As for your bf, it sounds like he is still adjusting but that's no excuse for him not to listen to you when you tell him not to hit you back-to-back. Honestly, that would piss me off. lol. But I think you handled the situation wonderfully, as much as you might have been annoyed at him. Good for you and you definitely deserve to be proud of yourself!

[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< Dental Work, Boyfriend Weekend, Busy Week Plans

I cringed as I read "root canal". I hope you feel better soon and that you have a nice time with your boyfriend tonight.

[-st☆rless-]

>.< Dental Work, Boyfriend Weekend, Busy Week Plans

I am glad you are fully committed to the relationship. That is great and I hooe you enjoy the evening with him tonight..

[valencia]

>.< Beginning of June

Glad you guys have moved over the hurdle! I am so glad to hear that things are going smoother for you. It must be crazy with your work week, too.
The library thing sounds fun! I bet your daughter loved it

[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< Beginning of June

RYC: thank you... I hope so...someday

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< Beginning of June

sounds so wonderful and working through -processing-understanding...all great things for a healthy relationship.

So isn't managing your time. it seems as you do a great job of it for the most part.

Maybe make a physical weekly schedule where you figure out what you have to day-by-day and what can be put off? etc. just a thought.
and Now I'm going to go reread your note to me so I can respond to that

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< Beginning of June

maybe suggest he spends time with you at your.place. that way you can get things done and he gets a feel.for when you all move in together. I.am so glad you are happy.

[valencia]

>.< Memorial Day Weekend With My 2 Loves

I am so sorry about the fight. It sounds horrible.
It's funny because J and I had an argument on Tuesday and he shut me out (literally - from his bedroom - and figuratively) when I really needed him. I've been having a very hard time coming back from that, even though the next day he acted like nothing happened. Sometimes I think relationships are too hard....but I think the right ones will work out, if they are meant to.

I really hope that you guys can work through this.

I also hope that your week has gone smoothly and that you are all happy.
How exciting to be thinking about your own home!

[once.upon.a.time.]

>.< Memorial Day Weekend With My 2 Loves

Your weekend sounds wonderful, hun. Hang in there with him; I know he hurt you and I know, from experience, how hard that is to let go but he's worth it.
RYC: It's fine on not getting a call. I wouldn't really have wanted to work there anyway

[Just Blu]

>.< Memorial Day Weekend With My 2 Loves

aww I cant wait to own a home too with land ahhh I get dreamy just thinking about it especially with my Eman. I am glad you had a good weekend .

[valencia]

>.< Memorial Day Weekend With My 2 Loves

I have done that with Eman try to end things when i dont even want to because of a fight. It is immature of me to do that I realize because I shouldn't threaten especially when you love someone and will do anything to make it work.

[valencia]

>.< One Month Anniversary Weekend

congrats - i hope you have many more happy anniversarys.

[zapkode marie]

>.< One Month Anniversary Weekend

CHEERS! and many many more to come

[A RedSox Fan]

>.< Dream A Little Dream For Me

I hate fighting.
And you're right - it is SO much harder when you're in a D/s relationship.
But I am glad you guys are working through things. That's good. As long as he's not hurting you to the point where it is emotionally abusive or anything...but you're right, relationships take work and real life adult relationships are completely different to the giggling, flirty teenage relationships, but they end up being so much more!

[once.upon.a.time.]

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