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dont know what to do anymore
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 Wow, hunny. What can I say? Except that you deserve SO much better than that!! I think he is part of the reason that you are so unhappy, and it sounds like you're all unhappy. It's not a good situation to be in. Is he willing to get counselling or anything to try and help?
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dont know what to do anymore
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It's been a long time since this post, but, my advice: leave him. Go through the pain and heartbreak of it, you'll come out better in the end. Believe me. My wife cheated on me, and I tried to make it work even after that for my son, but it didn't. It's very hard if the other person involved doesn't want to try. Leave him. He could be a HUGE part of your depression, etc.
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[GilesMcK]
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Negativity
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RYC: Yep, I am a total bookworm! Love books and I love to read. I read a LOT and pretty fast, unless I have a really busy schedule.  What kind of books do you like?
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Negativity
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My outlook is to grieve for the sad things, as that is natural. But find small things to be grateful for. Just one small thing each day. Being thankful for clean drinking water, as so many in the world don't have this. And food. And a home. And the way the sun shines on the trees as you pass them. Just little things, that you don't notice unless you look.
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RYC: Oh, wow.  I'm sorry that he made that bad decision. I hope that he remains faithful to you now, though. It must be hard to come back from something like that. I know I would have trouble with trust after something like that, too. xx
Oh, btw, I have a personal diary - girl.from.gotham
I'm going to add you on there because I check it more often. xxx
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Negativity
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I've decided to look for ways to embrace the negativity instead. It's all around me, it's far easier to see and feel and experience, so why not? My wife is tired of me? Well, she doesn't ask for much any more. Lost my job? More time to read. Crippling social anxiety? I spend almost nothing for gasoline each month.
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Negativity
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So your hubby cheated on you??? That's so not cool. But it has nothing to do with you...it's part of his shortcomings that he cheated. I really hope that you can be happy, at least one day. I know it is hard when you've had to deal with all those thoughts in your head (I've had them and still do sometimes).
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Inside My Head!
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I think a lot more people can relate to what you are going through than you realise. Not saying that they have been EXACTLY what you have been through. But I have definitely felt some of those feelings and still do sometimes. It's a struggle to fight the bad feelings. But it is worth it if you can get past them. What things make you happy? What cheers you up?
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Love
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It is SO hard when you can't see the beauty in yourself and you think you aren't worth things. But I promise you, you ARE worth it and you need to start believing it. Even if you just believe it a TEENY bit, that's a start.
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Welcome to Bloop!
I used to feel the way you do every day...24 hours. I can honestly say that I never expected my feelings and thoughts to change but I think they can and they do, even when you're not even realising it.
Looking forward to reading your diary. <3
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Inside My Head!
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*nods* I understand that. I hope you feel better someday. And I am always here for you......
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Inside My Head!
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 It's in the past and I'm getting over it now I'm in a great relationship now with a great girl named Ilia and a great guy named PK and all there is is love and support its been a good thing for me
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[Girl_interupted]
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Inside My Head!
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It won't hurt to try again. Maybe the meds your taking needs adjusted or you need something new all together.
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[Mom♥X's 3]
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Inside My Head!
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i'm sure theirs a difference he was beating me up and then going to court and telling the judge my bipolar made me do it
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Love
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I'm lucky that my girlfriend understands my illness but my exfiancee and my exhusband definetly didn't i've been hospitalized 11 times now the sad part was my exfiancee had mental health issues to and like to use them as excuses for his bad behavior
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[Girl_interupted]
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Mad
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I can relate, only it's music and writing that gets me calmed down.
Love the pic and welcome to Bloop
♥ Ashley - A
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[Mama2One]
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Mad
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Welcome.
I love that pictures.
I also like to read an get away. Sometimes I feel like I'm really in the story. It's a nice feeling sometimes.
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[*Pixie*]
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Mad
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I understand how you feel I used to wear that same mask now I'm pulling it off and I find it liberating btw welcome to bloop maybe someday you can pull you can pull your mask off too bloops helpped me do that
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[Girl_interupted]
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welcome to bloop