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We Are Who We Choose to Be
by .Ad.Infinitum.

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Just A Thought

Let's hope we both can get up the will to do what our body needs us to do. I have the same problem - willingness. I know the exercise can really help with my anxiety and depression, but sometimes it's so difficult.

[jkblooz]

Self Help or Self Sabotage?

:/ I think it's weird that he didn't change his relationship status. Or at least take his status off his profile, y'know? And I hope you aren't just a secret. :/

[jessicax]

Why Not? Day #1

Oh, thank you - it's nice to have a perspective from the 'other side'
I'm trying not to take it personally, but it's hard. The line between parent and friend is not an easy one. I'm glad that you and your mom get along now.

[♥ Aime]

He Loves me, He Loves me Not!

I hope it all works out!!

[how to love♥]

Social Services is Ridiculous

I get an hour of childcare for each credit I'm enrolled in.

[how to love♥]

New Life = Sleep Deprivation


I wish you luck I think I might try some of that myself.

[Girl_interupted]

New Life = Sleep Deprivation

I sleep with a fan.

And honestly, you'll lose weight easier this way now that you've gotten to the bottom of it. Have you ever watched The Biggest Loser? At some point, each of the contestants break down and really make a break through on their weight loss. That's because there is more than likely a deeper reason to why you gained the weight and why you've kept it on.

Good luck on your journey!!

[how to love♥]

Long Day's End

LOL. The reason why you got 680 is to cover last month and this month, too. Whenever you applied is when the benefits start.

Thing is, more money = healthier food. More meats, more veggies, all sorts of stuff. Ella and I got $330 a month and we spent it all. My fridge and freezer was always full of meats, fruits and veggies.

[jessicax]

Can't Turn Back Now

Anytime at all. I was with the guy for 6 years...so it was a pretty messy breakup. Thanks.. And sure is, I guess. And yes, time is the magic thing here, God only knows how MUCH time it will take, but youre right, just a day at a time. Or in my case...1 hour at a time, lol.

[A Thousand Miles]

Can't Turn Back Now

Thanks so much for your support. Its very much appreciated right now. I know time makes things easier and that's what brings about my optimism... if I can hold out for another day without going completely insane then I'm doing something good Sorry about your recent split... tis the season for love, but also for disappointment I guess.

[.Ad.Infinitum.]

Can't Turn Back Now

It's so hard. My recent split was more dramatic than that, but I can relate so closely to your "On the other hand..." paragraph, felt like I wrote it. Minus the son part, in a way, but yeha. I'm sorry youre feeling loss, and if you need to vent or talk, I'm around quite often. Hang in there, time makes things easier.

[A Thousand Miles]

Can't Turn Back Now

Ryc: Sounds exactly like my ex! He used to pee everywhere in the middle of the night after drinking. I'd always have to wake up and try to argue with him and stop him. It was terrible. Kinda glad he deleted me from Facebook lol.

[shelby :]]

Serial Killers and Sociopaths

Most of your "friends" from high school seem petty and don't understand how short life really is. I don't necessarily talk to anyone from high school - three people on a regular basis, actually, and that's only because 3 of us hung out and got into trouble together and we all ended up getting pregnant and had our kids within 3 months of each other. The other is my best friend and I would never stop talking to her.

I'm so sick of petty bullshit that people let run their lives. (NOT YOU! THEM!) Sure, you may have done people wrong, but fuck that. Who doesn't make mistakes? No one. You're clearly the one that has changed by reaching out to someone, just to apologize even. Their excuse of saying it's "creepy" is childish, honestly.

I think every young parent wonders what it'd be like if they didn't get pregnant. The only reason I don't anymore is because if I didn't have a kid, I'd still be in the same town, pry getting drunk every night. /shrugs. I'm making myself better and have become a better person because of my daughter.

It sucks having to grow up early. Having to become an adult and responsible for someone else's life. God must have some sort of plan for us in this all.

Abortion is the easy way out and I think it's disgusting, in a way. I know some women think they don't have a choice. My friend had one done in September or October and I understood her reasoning why. The guy that got her preggers was abusive, they were in the midst of breaking up and getting back together and it was just a nasty mess. She already has one little girl with a guy that she's not with anymore, so she didn't want to risk having two kiddos with two different douche bag fathers. I probably would've done the same.

However, people that do have the option of adoption, why not? Two of my friends just lost their baby and they're devestated. I can't imagine the pain they're going through. Yet other "kids" abort their own baby without giving adoption a chance. :/

(On another note, one of my friends from back home has a little girl with a guy she just divorced. Before she got married to Brian, they were broken up and she was seeing Dj. Well, Dj got her preggers and she wanted to get back with Brian and Brian said he'd never be able to hold that child without resentment. So Dj and Becky decided to have the child and give it up for adoption. Sure, she had another kid, but still. Idk, to each their own!)

Sorry for rambling.

[jessicax]

Do You Know Who I Am??

You're far from a failure. Seriously. That little boy looks up to you, regardless if you need state assistance.

The state set up the assistance programs for moms like you that DO work their butt off and still need help to make ends meet.

[jessicax]

Morning Ramblings

I think guys have a chemical imbalance due to the fact that they don't realize that the truth is better than the story. That women are strong than they think and we don't need them to try and spare our feelings.

If you're crazy, then I'm crazy too. If I feel like someone isn't telling the truth..then I dig and dig too.

[-Trish]

Morning Ramblings

Yes, I agree. I find that my daily walk (short) is when I feel best. Thanks. - Jon

[jkblooz]

Speech Impairments, Goodbyes, Hard Times

Haha - you'll have to be more creative in your cruelty! It seriously is the best way to get kids to start using language functionally. How old is he?

[BLOOP'S ALPHA BITCH]

Speech Impairments, Goodbyes, Hard Times

It's common for little boys to have language difficulties - and true that you have to be a bit 'cruel', like putting things he likes out of his reach so that he has to use language to ask for them. That will help him learn to use language functionally. Is he on the autism spectrum?

[BLOOP'S ALPHA BITCH]

Christmas Tree Secrets

I love the "its mine". I feel that way about my car. I worked my ass off to afford it. So many like it, but it's mine.

[jessicax]

The Twilight Zone

It makes it especially harder if there's great sex involved too :/ Hope you feel better!

[Pig Tails]

Lunatic

Just because of all of this going on in my life. It hurts. It feels like I blinked and everything good disappeared. I'm not even sure how this happened. And on top of it everyone thinks I'm crazy. Haha at this point I do too

[.Ad.Infinitum.]

Lunatic

Lol, ok. Why are you hurt, do you know?

[xoxo, jes.]

Lunatic

nope, an old man lol... well okay, not old, but older.

Lunatic

Is the leasing manager a girl?

[xoxo, jes.]

Me Again!

.....my boyfriend about drove two flipping hours to get the game even though his will be here by the end of the week. Fruitloop.

I hope things work out between you two... I had that horrible feeling with Tyler at the end of 2010. Horrible, crushing feeling. We split for three months and now we can't stand to be away from each other (minus the drunken break ups. )

[xoxo, jes.]

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