I suppose this is where I share my thoughts.... by -CoffeeBean | |
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Rainbow in the dark
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It is truly stupid. people are who they are, uniqueness is what makes us a people. but there's something about us that wants us all to be the same...bullshit!
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[Ariel ♥ ]
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Rainbow in the dark
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i think i know what you bes sayin. if someone isn't happy with who they are then they have the power to change it so its like quit your bitchin lol
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[Eternal Sunhine]
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Rainbow in the dark
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true this homie. at least you don't try to be someone in spite of who everyone else is. then you might just be fake.
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[BumbleBee]
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Now in Yearbook//Seventh Period
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rae rae, you're not alone. we are all scared. it feels like yesterday when we became friends in 7th grade and now we are bringing this chapter to an end. i loves you so. you really are a good friend even in our bad times.
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[BumbleBee]
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Now in Yearbook//Seventh Period
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yay! senior year is the best! have as much fun as you can while you're young, I know that sounds cliche, but when people told me that the 4 years of high school will fly by, they weren't kidding!
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[Ariel ♥ ]
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Is the Guard worth it? Or is he being UNREASONABLE?
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I think you two should sit down and deeply discuss this decision.. but i think you should keep it in mind. Its not a bad one... but also i would way out the pros and cons of doing that too. Because you have to think if your not ready to maybe give up your life then you shouldnt do it definately. And its good to do stuff for yourself... expecially if you've done so much for him already, its not good to just do for others, its how you get walked all over... and it gets harder to get out of that cycle once you get older.
And if you want to go to school there are so many options now, cheaper ones as well. You could go to a community for a few years or go to a cheap state university.. thats what im doing right now. I went to a private college for 40,000 but i paid like 20,000 and i found a school closer to home that was like 4 times the cost, so i transfered. And i feel im going to be happier and i can pay it off right then and there before i even go. SO just look at all your options before making the decision and involve him in it, but dont make what he wants what you want. But consider what he has to say.
Hope it helps and good luck on your decision. =]
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[..::..tic tac toe..:]
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Is the Guard worth it? Or is he being UNREASONABLE?
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This is so true... I too am still in search. But i feel like we will never find that person but people who we think come pretty close. Seeing as people arent perfect.. even though some think differently lol.
And i agree with you on seeing different people is interesting. Some of the things they say just baffle me. And i hate people who give me attitude and i didnt do anything to them. Its like a pet peeve.
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[..::..tic tac toe..:]
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Is the Guard worth it? Or is he being UNREASONABLE?
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Consider his opinion on this as an outsider instead of the person directly related to this.
The national guard is, of course, a very large decision to be made on your own, and consider the risks and the time spent apart that go along with it. Consider how little time you two will actually have to speak to each other, and how that would affect him, even if you are trying to make a decision for what's best for your future, the national guard is something you two should discuss and come to an agreement on. There are many other reasonable solutions for paying for your schooling, none of which would hurt him as much as going away like that.
Don't be angry with him, he may not have chosen the best words to describe his pain over such a decision to you, but there's no reason to be upset. Discuss it with him, consider what steps you can take now, weigh your options, and then if the guard is the only reasonable solution left, try to give him the ability to understand. Relationships aren't just about saying what you want to do, you've had it right so far, you must compromise and accomadate your lifestyle, and if you want to make it, you must never regret any of the accomadations that you've previously made.
Best of luck, hope things work out for you ~
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[LoserPalooza]
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Today
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welcome to bloop. I love Fringe! I won't be able to see it though, I'm going to tape my brother's concert.
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[Kristin with an i]
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