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It's been a long time!
by ~Just the 3 of Us~

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Short and to the point

09/27/2009

I am knee deep in school (11 credits) and about to go crazy.

Work sucks! That's all I really want to say about that!

The divorce is no longer amicable. In fact, ex has completely left us...no support whatsoever. Trying to find the time/money to file so that child support can begin. He doesn't want his son to know what a loser he is (his words, not mine). That's fine by me. While I feel that Henry should have his father in his life, perhaps this IS better so that this sweet and innocent little boy is not corrupted. *shrugs*

Henry started swimming lessons. First one totally sucked. He wouldn't let go of me at all! Today at least he was laughing and having fun. Hope that continues.

That's all I know really.

Here are a few pics that a friend mine took of Henry. I love them!

Henry Blanket

Henry Blanket 1



My Stick Family from WiddlyTinks.com

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He is an adorable little boy. I don't know your situation but I do hope the father of your child will wake up & not miss out on his son's precious years.

[Makayla|0 likes] [|reply]

By the way, I added you to my friend's list & faves, if that's okay! =)

[Makayla|0 likes] [|reply]

Pagan tag

I am sorry to hear hes acting like a fuckwad, maybe iut IS better hes not around.

Henry is so gorgeous!! If gaius was a girl I would be arranging the wedding

[Lady PaganStar|0 likes] [|reply]

henry is adorable!
im sorry for all your going through right now. oh how i have been there! and really, it is better to let the ex gather himself up and pull his head out of his ass before he tries to parent .....my kids went 6 months without seeing their dad after we divorced because of that.
just always be there fr your son, and never speak ill of his father, no matter what. hard as it will be at times...its the best thing for your son!
((HUGS))

[ningaStar|0 likes] [|reply]

Henry not knowing and and him taking resonsibility for his child is not necessarily two different things

sounds to me like he just wants to get out of paying child support.

[ceruleandolphin|0 likes] [|reply]

he is just incredibly gorgeous. shame his father s a f-wit!

[mrs mandy mooStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I had no idea about whatshisname...I'm sorry to hear that. But, you're a strong woman, and a strong mama, and I know you and Henry will be okay. He's absolutely adorable!!!

[daydream|0 likes] [|reply]

Look to see if there is a Volunteer Lawyer program in your area. Also- contact your state Attorney General. Divorce does NOT have to be final for you to be getting support and they will do all of that for free honey. Let me know if you need some help.

Yep...I was here!

[SproutStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I'm sorry that this is happening, but maybe you're right, maybe his leaving is for the best. *hugshugshugs*
You're so strong.

[-kayStar|0 likes] [|reply]

~ Hugs ~

[just del|0 likes] [|reply]

I agree it could be better that he's not around. But then again, I'm finding some men don't know or want to be dads to young boys. My ex recently said he wants more time with Maverick because "he's starting to get fun." I'm sorry, I guess diapers and waking in the night don't require a father. But then again, I was the one who was there for his first steps, he said "mama" first, and he made ME a father's day gift. He sees his dad frequently, but I wish he didn't. It would give Aaron a chance to have a better bond. Henry deserves to have a man around who CHOOSES to do so!

And Kristin is right, I got support long before the divorce was final!

[Party of FiveStar|0 likes] [|reply]

And congrats on school and being a single mommy. I know it's hard and it will all be worth it!

[Party of FiveStar|0 likes] [|reply]

He's so darling!

[Laugh LinesStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I SWEAR he is too frickin cute!! I just wanna pinch those cheeks and give him kissies!

[*Stealth Bombshell*Star|0 likes] [|reply]

[queenbutterflyStar|0 likes] [|reply]

hope your situation gets better hon, and Lil Henry is so damn adorable

[Carrie|0 likes] [|reply]

Yeah, pants are long on her, but we have to get a bigger size or they won't go over her thighs or butt. And the shirts have to be 2-3T or we can't get her arms through. But she's on the shorter side.

[Bella.|0 likes] [|reply]

ryc: Yea, it's hard right now, even going part-time to school & working full time but I did it last year, so I guess I can do it again. Just have to say goodbye to sleep. lol

[Makayla|0 likes] [|reply]




Those pictures are so precious!! <3

[family♥f4|0 likes] [|reply]

oh he's beautiful!! I can't believe your ex is behaving this way. I would have never guessed that he'd do something like this. What does his mother think of it?

oh yes, I think you should call his mother and tell him that he's neglecting her grandchild.

[LIONESS|0 likes] [|reply]

Your little guy is getting SO cute! I havent talked to you in a while, this is my new diary btw!

[♥ Oh baby!|0 likes] [|reply]

RYC: oh girl I know. I didn't mean it like that. Some kids have allergies that makes their nose run & stuff, I was talking about the ones that you can look at & clearly tell they are miserable & sick. The ones that are coughing & sneezing everywhere & can barely breathe.

[Makayla|0 likes] [|reply]

hes getting so big holy cow lol

[FirstTimeMommy|0 likes] [|reply]


He is on disability, I dont have a job either, and I recieve no income. So we are both in the same boat.



♥Mindi

[♥lil mamiStar|0 likes] [|reply]

RYC: I'm going to give about 2-3 more weeks. My period is so whacked up. I don't even get that concerned about it anymore, the only reason I told him is because I threw up yesterday morning. But that could have been from something I'd ate.

[Makayla|0 likes] [|reply]


Thank you for your honesty



♥Mindi

[♥lil mamiStar|0 likes] [|reply]

ryc- If I have another boy I want new clothes lol

[Expecting#4inMay|0 likes] [|reply]

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