DEAR PORN ADDICTED MEN:
Your girlfriend didn't become insecure. You installed it.
Every night you chose a screen over her body, you taught her she wasn't enough. You didn't say the words. You didn't have to. Your absence said them louder than language ever could.
She stopped undressing with the lights on because of you. Started dieting because of you. Googled "why doesn't my boyfriend want me" at 3am because of you. Bought lingerie she was too nervous to wear because of you. And it stayed in the drawer because of you.
You didn't lay a hand on her self worth. You just redirected your desire somewhere else and let the vacuum do the damage.
And when she finally said something, you called her insecure. Like the word was a diagnosis and not a confession.
She wasn't insecure before you. She became insecure because of you. And the fact that you named it as her flaw instead of your consequence is the most dishonest thing you've done besides the behavior itself.
But you already knew that
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