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by Garret's mom

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so tired and in pain

12/28/2012

well we made it home ok, we were so glad to be leaving, the BS and attitudes were driving us to be snappy with each other so i'm glad we got out of there. Stopped at our favorite diner before we left and had the most wonderful breakfast and they even gave us a 32oz coffee for free! The trip over was pretty stressful once we hit the snow on the road, there were several people who should not have been driving, even though they did have chains on, and we are positive that one of them along with some idiots that tried to pass near a corner, caused an accident behind us, but we were ahead of the pack and kept going because it was pretty nasty and if we would have stopped it would have been really hard to get going, plus there were hundreds of cars behind us and there were plenty of people to help. Once we got home, we brought in just enough of what we needed from the car and literally crashed for the night. We made real easy food like bagels and cream cheese and whatever was easy at hand and then crashed for like 11 hours or so for much needed sleep. Jon is not on the getting better slide yet, he is still really sick, but I'm hoping with these extra hours of rest and some good food and lots of less stress he will be able to bounce back in a few days. I, on the other hand, am in misery. Yes, the sinus infection is almost gone, though I'm still congested and working on that, but I got home and yesterday ended up with a kidney stone. I'm pretty sure that it/they passed ok now but the new issue is my left shoulder, I've done something to injure it. I'm hoping I didn't tear the rotator cuff, but I don't know, it hurts really bad and I didn't sleep very well last night. I have some limited range of motion, but if I go outside that it causes severe pain. As much as I don't want to, I think I'm going to be heading to the ER later today to get it x-rayed or whatever they do. I was already taking as much advil as possible for the other stuff, and it didn't even get near to touching this pain, it's horrible. The only relief I've had so far is that I iced it early early this morning, and it got so cold and the pain went away for a bit that I fell asleep and woke up a little while later when the cold was starting to wear off.  And as the sun was rising (which was gorgeous wish I could have gone out and taken a picture) I found a position that didn't hurt as much and dozed off, only for my little sweety to come tramping in a little while later, but a few winks was better than none.

Matt is being obnoxious again, beyond belief. While we were over the mountain, he texts me and says, I need to change the dates to the 27-29, to which I responded back...I'm sorry but we're not planning to be back until the night of the 27, if we can get across the mountain that day, if not we won't be home until the 28, which was why I scheduled him to be with you the 28-31. He never answered back so I figured that that was the end. So late last night he texts me asking what time we are going to meet, then before I can even type he shoots off another text saying that he has to bring Garret back on Sunday. ....my fire of anger and ire starts to roar....  so I manage to get a text off before he sends another that I will meet him around 4 and I'm sorry but we already have plans that we can't cancel and so no, he should plan to keep him until the 31st. So he snaps back, Monday is a work day....well dammit, you've had the schedule for weeks, if not months, why the hell didn't you take the time to look at the schedule and tell me that before the day you're supposed to have him so I could make other arrangements....not to mention that we had arranged everything because he was planning to get married in Jan, which he's informed me is not happening now because they ran out of money and she is demanding a church wedding... anyways, so now I have to re-do the schedule again for the rest of the year.

so I get a text message around 8am this morning, he has seen my fb status about the kidney stones and asks if I want to cancel this weekend, which I do at the moment, I would never be able to survive the 6 hour drive in the pain I'm in. Dammit he gets his way after all, that really sucks. Garret took it ok when I told him, he was sad but I hyped the fact that he gets another whole christmas next weekend to open lots more presents, that seemed to help.

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Doug pulls crap like that FREQUENTLY: My work schedule means I have to change my visitation schedule. Umm, you've known your work schedule for AT LEAST two weeks, and you're only just NOW talking to me about changing visitation? Really? I've gotten to the point where when he pulls stunts like that, he doesn't get a make up visitation (he expects them, but I tell him when he waits until the last minute to change the schedule and it's not an emergency and he's known for a while now it needed changed, no sorry, no make up). I know it's not EXACTLY the same as what Matthew did, but I feel ya, Sis. I feel ya.

[Mommy to 3+1|0 likes] [|reply]

well it's been getting worse lately and I have a feeling that SHE is influening some of it, but of course can't prove it. He told me he works on Monday, but I have no way to prove it at all, oh, but he's off on Tuesday....that doesn't help me any, regardless, we've cancelled this weekend, but I need to keep track of it and make sure that he doesn't keep trying it or we're going to have a very serious talk about it. I'm sick of being the one that makes all the sacrifices, of me not being able to do what I want to on the planned weekends, never being able to do anything because he isn't reliable, I can't trust that he won't say he needs to cancel at the last moment.

[Garret's mom|0 likes] [|reply]

see if your state allows for a "rule 11" agreement even though there was no marriage/divorce. I do it w/Tim it spells out dates, times, drop off places and things like Chey will be allowed to call me when she wants, if I call to talk to her (since she doesnt have her own cell) he has to let me talk to her or she has to be allowed to return the call within 2 hrs and a few other things.. Its then filed with the court and it can be changed by mutual agreement without an official amendment - but it just makes things so much easier

[Me, Myself & I|0 likes] [|reply]

interesting, I'll look into it

[Garret's mom|0 likes] [|reply]

think in a way - Kianna has become so jaded to death that you're right. She handles it differently then everyone else.
We did have a good day today for the most part. There was a small bitch fight between her and chey at Olive garden - that made Chey run to the bathroom to cry a bit and stunned Kianna. Dont think Kianna ever expected Chey to switch from being a "brat" to a "bitch" and give and good as she was getting verbally when Kianna started in on her. Sadly it was when she realized (chey) how mean she had been that she ran off to cry. Wasnt cause her sister had been mean - it was cause she had been mean to her sister.

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