I just found out yesterday that I am going to be an Aunt!!! I am trying to be happy about it , but in all honesty I am a bit dissapointed in my little sister. She is only 20 years old! I know that is plenty old enough to have a child, but she has the maturity level of a 13 year old. I really hope that this can change her for the better. I am also certain that the father of this baby is the bum that she has been with on and off for the last 7 years. He has never had a job (EVER) and he always mooches off of my parents. He even used to sleep on thier stair stoop at night! He doesn't try at life. She didn't mention him when I talked with her on the phone, so I am also assuming that he didn't want anything to do with this child. My mother is not in good shape at all. Her health is declining rapidly. She has had three heart attacks in her life (she is only 49) and I really don't think that she could do much in the way of babysitting. I would help out if I were closer, but they live almost 4 hours away from me. I want to send her some baby stuff! I want to be there for my sister. Even though she ripped me off and she owes me 500 bucks for a phone bill she ruined, she is my sister and I love her. We have only spoken twice since she had moved in here and fucked up my credit. She only lived here for 2 weeks when she went back to Jersey to be with her lazy bum boyfriend again. I said I wasn't going to have those kinds of people in my life anymore, family or not. I don't appreciate liars and thieves. But again...ahe is my SISTER! We weren't raised together and I always wanted to be closer to my sisters. I really tried with her. I invited her into my home when she wanted to get away from her boyfriend. I bought her a phone and a plan in my name. Instead of her going out to find a job, she would secretly message her ex until he made her feel so bad that she went back to him and left me with the bill (which I STILL have to pay). But now she is pregnant. I really hope that this will make her more responsible.
Also, I am FINALLY getting my car fixed!! Sure it is gonna cost me almost 15 hundred bucks. But I can NOT live in this state anymore without a car. Everything is SO far away! I am super excited to get my car back when it is finished! Then I can visit my sister!