Hyper-detailed, overly ambitious to-do list for 2009

12/31/2008

• Physical
  • Health
    • Love body
    • Drink tea instead of hot chocolate
    • Cut down on simple carbs, like whoa
    • Drink 70oz water daily
    • Eat a fruit/veggie at every meal
    • Get a gyn
    • Go to bed before midnight
    • Eat dinner before eight
    • Get the surgery
    • Take meds, especially vitamins
  • Fitness
    • Make and adapt exercise schedule to fit changing schedules
    • Exercise for fifteen minutes a day, even if it's just bed yoga
    • Be able to do the pilates one hundred, for the full one hundred
    • Skate on the canal at least twice
    • Walk from Vanier to Kanata
  • Hygiene
    • Brush hair daily and occationally do something pretty with it
    • Brush teeth daily
    • Bathe weekly
    • Wear more than the same three articles of clothing
    • Change socks and underwear every other day
    • Shave once a month
    • Occationally use my makeup, before it all goes bad
• Financial
  • Keep paying off debts
  • Get credit report
  • Use the envelopes
  • Stay out of deficit
  • Get on disability and/or find job that pays a reasonable rate
  • Have money saved for Christmas
  • Have taxes done by a professional, on time
  • Save enough money to send Ari's presents and get passport
• Mental
  • Illness
    • Morning/Evening routine that promotes sacred joyfulness
    • Breathe through toes, stand up, and look people in the face
    • Love life
    • Bitch less, do more
    • Figure out how to let go of what isn't my problem
    • Ask for referal to psych if things go much more downhill
    • Smile, and laugh, often
    • Learn to act through fear
    • Put extra effort in not allowing the opiates to effect actions
    • Play with the kitties
    • Treat me like a small child, with love, structure, understanding and discipline
  • Social
    • Try to find a better balance between family and friends
    • Blog
    • Go to at least one SCA event
    • Get off the darned computer
    • Tell people frequently that and why I love them
    • Look people in the face
    • Stop bitching about people behind their backs
    • Never let myself get in a position where I feel too trapped to be honest
    • Learn how to set boundaries with calm, instead of reacting with fear or rage
    • Objectively look at what people are saying, without getting hurt whether it's true or false
    • Relearn how to interact with who people are, instead of reacting to who other people have been
    • Relearn how to really get to know someone/situations
    • Relearn how to really listen
    • Learn how to talk about positive things
    • Call people I care for regularly instead of making them call me
    • If nothing else, call people on their birthdays
    • Only agree to social interactions I wish to participate in
    • Only spend time with people who are a net-positive influence in my life
    • Go to Halifax
    • Visit Ari
    • Get in a place where I could function in a structured and defined romantic relationship
  • Educational
    • Work through some optional courses (don't cheat on tests)
    • work really hard on the ASL class
    • Decide if taking more ASL classes
    • Get freaking drivers licence
    • Learn and use more fifty cent words
    • Practice piano
• Spiritual
  • Domestic
    • Take lots of pictures
    • Keep picture wall updated
    • Keep calendar updated
    • Have a current address book
    • Meal plan
    • Eat at the table
    • Get stuff from Ari and Kai
    • Love the apartment
    • Use timer/DIN
    • Have nothing in the house that I don't use and/or love
    • Make a full-sized companion cube
  • Religious
    • Stop spinning things
    • Go camping
    • Keep my word
    • Stop letting Ryan!Drama interfer with finding Community
    • Start writing songs/poetry again
    • Celebrate Easter and Midsummer
    • Start actively talking to the gods again
    • Continue my work on paying off my shild
    • Be more courteous/polite and hospitable
    • Get a tattoo
    • Adopt a child