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What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger
by Grandpas~Little~Bookworm

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Why Do I Always Get The Toads??

02/06/2013

Bryan is turning out to be just like Mark, wanting to know where I am and Who I'm with at all times. Its starting to bug me. He said I had his "permission" to go to a job interview on Friday. I don't remember asking permission I just told him I was going.

He's talking down to me all the time, and he's rude to my family. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't know if were going to be together to much longer.
I was already in one, abusive relationship, mental, verbal and a few times physical, I can see the signs starting up again. I just don't know if I'm being paranoid or not giving him the benefit of the doubt.

He started out really sweet, but now he's changed like I'm supposed to be with him at all times or able to talk to him when ever he texts.
I was supposed to go out with Joyce last friday to a Dukes game, for a girls night out, dinner then the hockey game, he shows up unannounced at my door two hours before I was supposed to leave, scared the living day lights out of me. I was up stairs in the shower, with my music on, boomer was sleeping in mom's room. I was by myself, I walked out of the bathroom and he's waiting in my room, I almost had a heart attack. I kicked him out of my room so I could get dressed. Then reminded him that I had plans, well he wined and complained that I never spend time with his so I said fine he could come.

We get to the restaurant in wellington we finish our meal and he then tells me he forgot his bank card. So I had to pay for everyone. Plus I had to pay for his hockey ticket, I have season tickets. He then proceeded to get mad at me because I was sitting in my seat, and he had to sit below me, so I moved.
He talked during the whole game and got mad when I talked to Joyce. After the game we went back to my house. I told him I had a headache, and sent him home. I was so angry. I couldn't believe the way he acted. I thought Mrs. Moon was going to kill him and Mr. Cameron wasn't to pleased either.
I honestly don't believe things are going to work out with him.

I can't wait until next year when I move to Kingston then I wont have to deal with the assholes of the County!

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These sound like huge flashing red warning signs of an abuser. First acting super sweet and winning the person over, then once that's done they turn off the charm and start demanding all the person's time, don't want them doing anything with anyone else, and start wedging themselves in and cutting the person off from their friends & family. If I were you, I would cut things off NOW, get out and don't look back.

[Atropos|0 likes] [|reply]

Hey...if he's that horrible to you, kick him to the curb. There's no reason to put up with that. Atropos is right, he's definitely sounding like the abusing type.

[Tiffany|0 likes] [|reply]

That really doesn't sound like he has a healthy attitude towards you or your relationship. Definitely abusive warning signs, I'd give a long hard think about what you want and if you're going to end it with him do it soon.

[amy|0 likes] [|reply]

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