Guys!! Tell Us About the Girlie In Your Life!!! - BloopDiary

Guys!! Tell Us About the Girlie In Your Life!!!

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2 Oct 2009, 01:16

Tell us all about the girlie in your life!!!

* How, when, & where did you meet her?
* Was it love at first sight?
* What does she look like?
* Is she older or younger than you?
* What do you love about her?
* How would you describe your relationship with her?
* Would you change anything about her if you could?
* What are her strengths?
* What are her flaws?
* Has she ever hurt you or have you ever hurt her so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with her?
* What is your favorite memory of her?
* Do you share a song together?
* Is she the "one"?
* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect girlie?

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2 Oct 2009, 01:20

j'dore hailey&ryan
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r u happy now RYAN!?!?!? LOL spill it!!

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2 Oct 2009, 11:53

Chris
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* How, when, & where did you meet her?

I actually met her through a supposed friend who told her to not hang out with me and that I was an asshole. She then called me, and the first time I ever heard her voice was on the phone. I was quickly invited to her birthday party where I a) saw her for the first time, and b) kissed her for the first time.

* Was it love at first sight?

I would say so.

* What does she look like?

Very short black girl, very cute face.

* Is she older or younger than you?

Younger

* What do you love about her?

She can be absolutely cute when she wants to be. When I say cute, I mean the cutest thing in the world. Then she can switch off and be amazingly beautiful.

* How would you describe your relationship with her?

Well we've been together for almost 6 years now. Needless to say, it's been rocky. Right now, we're doing great.

* Would you change anything about her if you could?

If I had to change anything about her, it wouldn't be her.

* What are her strengths?

She learns very quickly. I remember being around when she was being tutored in math back in high school, and she picked up something she had no idea about and was an expert in a minute.

* What are her flaws?

She's terribly indecisive. Never take her to a food court at a mall.

* Has she ever hurt you or have you ever hurt her so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple?

Yeah, but I really don't want to get into it. We broke up for about a week, but it really couldn't keep us apart. Her friends pretty much egged us on and kept us fighting, but due to both of our rebellious natures, we got back together.

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with her?

No.

* What is your favorite memory of her?

I can't really pick one out that's my FAVORITE, but she doesn't grasp implied ideas. Like this one time, before she was 18, we were going to this hookah bar, and obviously she wouldn't be able to get in. The guy was pretty lenient about people without IDs (don't ask why), so we told her to just say you left your ID at home or something. Well, when we got there, the guy started giving us our menus and she pops up, "I LEFT MY ID AT HOME, BUT I'M UNDER 18." ...She didn't understand that we wanted her to lie about her age. We still make fun of her about it to this day.

* Do you share a song together?

We have completely opposite tastes in music.

* Is she the "one"?

I don't know.

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect girlie?

She has the perfect face, and we have totally compatible personalities.

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2 Oct 2009, 06:11

i blame mac

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* How, when, & where did you meet her? Months ago at school because we're cool like that.
* Was it love at first sight? No. There was the attraction, but none of this love at first sight.
* What does she look like? Brown hair, brown eyes..pretty typical of the culture here.
* Is she older or younger than you? Same age.
* What do you love about her? That she accepts who I am now and all my mistakes in the past without question.
* How would you describe your relationship with her? Well, we just started our romantic relationship in the last two weeks. It's at that sex all the time stage. But our friendship has always been open. Hell, she goes running with me every morning.
* Would you change anything about her if you could? Nothing. She wouldn't be her if something changed. I'd change her family, though. Shit they suck.
* What are her strengths? She's not a negative person despite everything going on in her life. She's always trying to make me smile. She never quits.
* What are her flaws? She let's her family keep a firm hold on her, even though she's strong enough to be her own person.
* Has she ever hurt you or have you ever hurt her so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple? Uh, no not yet. There was this time I completely blew up at her because of her family, but she just shrugged it off because I was having a shitty day and took it out on her.
* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with her? Nope.
* What is your favorite memory of her? Haha it's a funny memory. When we were out running and she saw sweater man...haha fucking priceless.
* Do you share a song together? Well the other night she was dancing and singing to Benny and The Jets...it was pretty awesome. We don't have a song, though.
* Is she the "one"? How the fuck should I know? Time will tell.
* How does she measure up to your idea of the perfect girlie? Well, she hasn't run away from me, that alone is key. She tolerates my random moments of self-hatred and low self-esteem and she let's me be alone when I need to. I'd say she fits the requirements spot on.

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2 Oct 2009, 08:31

The Ryan

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How, when, & where did you meet her? We met at work, in the Summer of '06. It was my first day there, and was the hottest day of the year, probably the hottest day in England ever, it was like 101 degrees, yo! I wish I could say that set the tone for the rest of our relationship... but that would just be a ridiculous melodramatic pathetic fallacy I'm afraid!

Was it love at first sight? I'm not sure "love" was my immediate emotion, but I saw her and knew at once that she was a woman who would change my life. She was tanned, with all this long blond hair, huge ray ban aviators and a look that said "I am so above this. I shouldn't even be here." I love a bit of arrogance in a woman. It was so totally hot. I went home that night and shamelessly searched for her on Myspace. Which was difficult, as I didn't know her surname! I wasn't even sure of her firstname!! But weirdly, I ran a search on our deparment at work, found SIMON, who I hadn't even met at this point, then found Dani in his friends list. That's when I realised she had an awesome sense of humour. She had a really witty profile, and that made me entirely sure that THIS was the girl I was going to marry. I saw her status said "IN A RELATIONSHIP" and thought "Wahey! What a challenge!" ;D

What does she look like? She's not far off my height. Long hair which swings from blond to light brown depending on the day. Big brown eyes. She gets told she looks like Blake Lively quite often. And I can live with dating a Blake Lively lookalike. It's fine! ;D

Is she older or younger than you? She's a bit younger, she's 22.

What do you love about her? Her shameless sense of humour, nothing is off bounds. And how much she completely and unconditionally loves and cares for me. Nothing is too much, if she thinks it will make me happy she will do it, buy it, chance it, try it. She pretty much rocks in that sense.

How would you describe your relationship with her? We're very different. I know other people wonder how it works and to be honest, so do we!!

Would you change anything about her if you could? Of course I would. I'm a perfectionist, that's how we work! I'd make her more out going. She's very reserved. But then again, would I be so attracted to her if she was incredibly out going? Probably not, I'd be terrified that she'd run off with someone else! As it stands she has this whole aloof "No man is good enough for me!" thing going on. Which puts my mind at ease!

What are her strengths? She's clever, and hysterical, and she writes amazingly well. And she always knows just what to say and buy me to make me happy! ;D

What are her flaws? Errrr ME probably! She shouldn't let me walk all over her. But then again, if she didn't, would I still want to be with her!? haha! She's a clean freak, and a bit possessive. But you can't have it all!

Has she ever hurt you or have you ever hurt her so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple? She hasn't. I'd never let her. I was stupid and let myself get hurt by other people in the past, simply by being naive and deluded and all those other silly things. I'm none of those silly things any more, so she'd have trouble hurting me!! I thought she should dump my ass when she found my diary and read it. I though I should dump her ass for reading MY diary. But she was so humble and sweet about it that I couldn't. It made me realise how much hurting her would hurt me.

Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with her? NO. We're not Americans, yo!

What is your favorite memory of her? That's hard. We had great fun in Vegas. Eating a champagne breakfast in the Grand Canyon was something special. But my favourite part of everyday is going to sleep next to her every night, there's nothing monumental or memorable about that... it's just the best bit! ;D

Do you share a song together? NO. That sort of sickingly cheesy shit makes us both feel ill. Though weirdly, Simon and I have lots of "songs together"! Oh dear, I'm gay aren't I!?

Is she the "one"? She's the one right now, I guess. But whenever I've felt someone was "the one" before... another "one" always came along. So it would be fickle and stupid of me to pretend like I knew!

How does she measure up to your idea of the perfect woman? She is everything I ever thought the perfect woman would be: beautiful, funny, intelligent, elitist, cultured, indulgent, devoted and she loves ME. That's got to count for something? ;D

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2 Oct 2009, 16:52

Makayla
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This is very sweet! I haven't heard you talk much about Dani & it's nice to hear about her!

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2 Oct 2009, 11:20

saminal

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Hoorah for guys on Bloop! We do exist, let the cry ring out. Etc. Etc.

* How, when, & where did you meet her? In the bloop chat room. I was in there, whiling away the hours at my old job, probably playing trivia, and she dropped in a few times.

* Was it love at first sight? My first opinion was based on her profile picture, and the opinion was 'she's waaaay out of my league.. but I hope we can be friends.

* What does she look like? Like a beautiful girl. Tall, amazingly curvy, longer than shoulder-length brunette.

* Is she older or younger than you? Older, by about 5 months.

* What do you love about her? She lets me be me. I've never felt so free being myself. I say things to her sometimes, and immediately feel like "Oh crap, here comes a fight" and she just laughs and rolls her eyes.

* How would you describe your relationship with her? Unique in its beginning, and better than could be expected considering the stresses we've been through.

* Would you change anything about her if you could? Her lack of self-confidence upsets me. I wish she could love herself as much as I love her. On the other hand, maybe she'd be an arrogant bitch if she did.

* What are her strengths? She's smart, and funny, and stronger than she knows.

* What are her flaws? She doesn't believe in herself, so she doesn't achieve nearly what she could.

* Has she ever hurt you or have you ever hurt her so terribly bad that it put your relationship in jeopardy? How did you get through it as a couple? No, there's never been a crisis point. We've fought, but since we first met in person we haven't spent a single night sleeping in separate beds by choice. And I reckon that's a good measure of our relationship so far.

* Have you ever tried/considered couple's counseling after a really big fight with her? See above.

* What is your favorite memory of her? Hmmmm. There are a few that stand out above the rest: The first time we met, those days in London; Looking after her after 5 too many drinks at my friend's housewarming in England; driving around the Lake District; one night in Melbourne ;); and last night when she was there for me when I needed her.

* Do you share a song together? No. I tried 'Green Eyes' by Coldplay once, because I love her emerald eyes, but she didn't know it so she decided it couldn't be 'our song'. It's just a song that makes me think of her.

* Is she the "one"? It definitely feels like it. There's never been a time when I've thought I'd made a mistake.

* How does he measure up to your idea of the perfect girlie? There's no such thing. You can't plan the girl you'll spend the rest of your life with and then hope to meet her. You have to meet a girl and then see if you feel that way about her... And I feel that way.

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2 Oct 2009, 11:40

Lindy
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ahhh im loving the mushiness!!!!

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