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Virginity
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23 Mar 2009, 19:04
valerieeeee
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we aren't together anymore. i don't think too much of him now, since he basically was willing to sleep with me after we broke up and didn't love me anymore. like, i guess he figured if we did it already we might as well still do it. which means he'd be willing to sleep with other exes? ugh. i just... yeah things didn't work out. while we were together though, he did make me feel special at times. sex is such a tricky, touchy subject. i've decided to wait until i'm married.
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23 Mar 2009, 19:09
Khoquetishღ
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Right on, I'm not sure if I'll wait it out til I find "the one" or til I MARRY "the one". I could have slept with quite a number of guys, but I'm extremely weary of doing it because it has NEVER worked out well for me. I'm still a virgin and I've always felt that if they're quick to sleep with you then they only ever wanted one thing. That's just my opinion, though. Not saying that that's always the case =]
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23 Mar 2009, 16:03
jodi
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i've been with two virgins. the first was nervous as could be, i just let him experiment and do his thing [along with some small advice, but it was only my third time, so i was basically horrible.]

the other is my current boyfriend. it was really awesome. i swear that he wasn't a virgin in the first place, but he insists. ;D

so in my case, it's different for each guy. one didn't have a clue [which is okay, just help out] and the other knew almost everything [yet still new at it with things he was unsure about.]

it's just a lot of teaching, helping, humour, and being respectful. you have to be comfortable with each other. just make sure you both can giggle/laugh at things. it helps to be open and ASK questions.
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23 Mar 2009, 19:07
Opie's Old Lady
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If you both feel like you are ready for that step then maybe slowly get to that point. Whether or not he's done in 2 seconds just remember that it is still something special & should not be taken lightly. My little advice is, if you two can't be in the same room naked with lights on then maybe you aren't quit ready. But then again everyone is different.

Hope everything works out for the best for you.
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24 Mar 2009, 10:21
& skull.
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virgins are always terrible. you were terrible when you were a virgin. he'll come quickly and it'll probably be awkward. just practise with him and he'll be a stud eventually. or at least he won't suck too bad. and if he doesn't do it for you after a while, then ditch him and find someone else.
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24 Mar 2009, 19:50
jodi
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dude ev, my current boif lasted 45 minutes. i wasn't prepared for his first time to last that long. [dies]
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25 Mar 2009, 07:01
& skull.
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my ex lasted about a minute, but i was pretty much screaming his face off to hurry the fuck up. if you're going to force me and make me feel shit enough to lose it, then you're going to cop some face screaming. lol.
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26 Mar 2009, 01:56
Radiant Designs
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HAHAHHA. I can see you in his face, "DO IT! DO IT NOW!!!"

xD
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24 Mar 2009, 10:23
& skull.
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i was terrible as a virgin, but i didn't really want to be a part of it.

at least you don't have to worry about it hurting for him. unless something goes very wrong.
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24 Mar 2009, 11:12
The Ryan
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Don't take it slow, yo! Eat him alive!! He will love it.
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24 Mar 2009, 12:27
panda bear.
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I was with a virgin only once. He was actually quite terrible but that didn't really matter. I helped him through it, or at least tried. He had performance issues, and really that's only something he can get over. Other than that though, he was getting better when we could actually get buddy to start xD
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24 Mar 2009, 18:58
kein mitleid
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I've been a "virgin" every time I had sex with someone new... because I'd never had sex with that particular person, so I was a virgin to them...

I mean, who cares anyway, the first time you have sex with anyone new, it's usually not going to be as great as it could be -- you have to get into a groove find out what works for the person, positions, level of fitness, flexibility, etc.

I mean, not all g-spots are created equal, not all girls can take it the same depth, and not all girls enjoy being donkey punched.
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24 Mar 2009, 19:11
valerieeeee
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"and not all girls enjoy being donkey punched."

hahahaha
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24 Mar 2009, 19:29
bloodyrose
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I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 years old.

I don't know if that's just a stereotype, but as a virgin, I always felt the need to hide my cash and prizes. I wore big clothes to hide my body, yet there wasn't much to hide since I was a skinny teenager with two molehills for boobs. I always felt like the loser in high school because everyone else lost their virginity on prom night. I didn't. I was a girl among women.

The first time my b/f and I did it, I wasn't prepared for a few things: first, I NEVER realized how much it hurt. Second I had NO idea what the hell I was supposed to do. I had a feeling I was terrible in the sack. My b/f assured me that it's normal to be terrible at your first time, but the more you practice, the better you get. Third, there's that myth where if you lose your virginity, you bleed. I didn't find any blood. I found that very interesting.
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24 Mar 2009, 19:49
jodi
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...uh well. not all girls bleed their first time..
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24 Mar 2009, 22:55
Chris
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Hymens tend to break before sex. Pesky little things.
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24 Mar 2009, 23:44
Jessica [Private]
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It's not a myth.
Some girls bleed, and some don't.

My one sister bled a shit ton. The other didn't at all.
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25 Mar 2009, 02:38
~*Shannon*~
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It's not a myth, it's just not a given. Some women do, some women don't. Just like some women experience pain, some women don't.
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24 Mar 2009, 20:31
fancy feast.
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I've been with one... and I mean, some of it comes naturally. it's not like he's going to have no idea what to do, he just might not be doing it quite right the first few times.
If he's doing something right, tell him so, and give him guidance if not. :O
just be nice about it because he might be nervous, lols.
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24 Mar 2009, 22:50
grungepappy
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Speaking as a Kwistian, I think all this talk about fawnikation is just tewwible. What must de Lawd think? Have you ever thought of that? :lol:
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24 Mar 2009, 23:54
xoxo Nova.
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xD I just recently slept with a virgin. It was terrible, completely and utterly terrible. I love him to death, but it was no bueno. Not his fault though, and I'm not so sex craved that every time a penis is inside of me I need to jizzle to be satisfied. I faked it like a pro though. =] For his sake. ;)
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25 Mar 2009, 00:09
Bec💕
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hahahahahaha!
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26 Mar 2009, 01:57
Radiant Designs
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"I faked it like a pro though."

HAHAHA.
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25 Mar 2009, 00:47
Makayla
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I have a question though. Does it hurt men when they lose their virginity like it does women? I remember my first time was NOT in the least bit pleasurable. I felt like I was being ripped open! Even though the guy went really slow. I bleed afterwards. Does a guy have any thing like that happen to him after his first time?
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25 Mar 2009, 02:33
Jessica [Private]
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...

my boyfriend said "it just hurts their ego when they blow their load ten seconds in"
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