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perfection.
by lady bri.

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involuntary.abortion.

04/24/2009





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Just got back from the hospital...

My sister went back to the OB today. My mom went with her just in case and it's a good thing she did.
They did another ultrasound and this time, they found the baby. But it was in her tube. They were cruel because they showed her the baby on the screen and even showed her the little heartbeat...yes, she was that far along.
Then they took her in the office and told her they had to kill it.

So they admitted her to the hospital. Gave her some shot that's supposed to kill the baby. She has to stay there until the hearbeat is completely gone and they're sure that they've completely terminated the pregnancy.

If the shot doesn't work, she'll have to have surgery.

What's really cruel is that they put her on the floor with all the pregnant women. And on that floor, everytime a baby is born they play lullaby music over the speakers. So, my sister has to lay there all night listening to lullaby music knowing that someone has just had a baby while that shot is killing hers.

Also- they told her that since this pregnancy was ectopic, that most likely if she got pregnant again, that one would be too. So basically, she may never have a baby.

It hurts me. My sister has wanted a baby for so long and when she finally gets one, she has to kill it.
What did she do to deserve this?






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GOSH, I'M SORRY TO HEAR THIS. YOUR POOR SISTER.
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CLICK MY EXTRA SPECIAL BABY DRAGON, AND GOOD LUCK AND GOOD KARMA WILL FOLLOW YOU AROUND TODAY, YO!
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[ LADY PUCKStar|0 likes] [|reply]

my mom has an ectopic pregnancy after me... and then she had two healthy baby boys... i think it took her maybe 6 months after the ectopic pregnancy to get pregnant with my oldest brother... 3 years later she got pregnant again... but everyone is different...
i hate that they put your sister in with all the pregnant women... having babies.. playing music when they give birth... it's a nice sentiment... but maybe they could think about the other women there...
*hugs*

[Luvvy|0 likes] [|reply]

That's so horrible...I'm truly sorry for you and your family. You'd think they'd find another place to put your sister where she wouldn't have to deal with that.

[Soul RebelStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I agree with you, that is cruel to put her on that floor.
My friend had an ectopic pregnancy recently :[ Hopefully your sister will be able to get pregnant again. Maybe if she can't naturally she can look into IV fertilization?

[mixieStar|0 likes] [|reply]

that's horrible ... that makes me feel sick to my stomach that they would do that to her. that's the last place you want to be ....

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random noter, but i'm so sorry to hear about your sister <3

[ily matilyn & dylan |0 likes] [|reply]



that is horrible



♥Brittany

[crazy dazyStar|0 likes] [|reply]

im so sorry that your sister had to go through that. They did NOT handle it well at all. I would def call the people in charge and make a formal complaint.

But to maybe help your sister... my friend an an ectopic pregnancy and shes going thru a very healthy pregnancy right now.

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