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Worthy and Willing's Diary
by Worthy and Willing

previous entry: This is weird

I still visit, but writing here is hard

12/27/2016

I'm here all the time reading and following other people's diaries because I find them inpiring, or because they're going through a lot and I wanna be encouraging, but I don't really know about having my own diary. I started here to build a community, but just ended up doing what I always do which is just kinda lurking and being impressed by people who are so much better at this than I am. Matt and I live in Savannah, GA now. I'm shocked by how well it's all going. His job is great, he loves it. I actually stay home and write, volunteer a few places, and teach online classes. We got a dog! Her name is Pippy. We love her so much, and sometimes it makes me think we should try to get married soon and start a family, but I'm happy just as we are. I don't know that I want to start a family...ever. I like how our lives work. We spend so much time doing our own thing, hitting our money goals, and just...I don't know...living. Not that you can't live with kids obviously lol. The thing is, I love kids. A lot. And I used to really think I wanted to be a mom, but I just don't have that feeling anymore. I don't know were it went, but it certainly went away. I talked to Matt about it a bit, and he said kids also just don't cross his mind much. We talk about getting married a lot, but kids? Nope. Does that make us weird? I don't know. Anyway, I guess I had more to say than I thought I did. I gave the woman from one of my favorote diaries here some advice on getting started writing when you really REALLY don't feel like it, and I decided to take my own advice. I'm glad I did. Hope you all have been well.

xo,

W&W

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If i were to sit down and write an actual entry it wouldve said almost exactly the same things. I dont think not want to have kids makes you weird at all!

[.Kismet.|0 likes] [|reply]

I see what you're saying. You can have a life with kids, but it's a very different life. It's a good life, if you're happy to make the needed sacrifices, but if only one spouse is willing to make those sacrifices, then it's not going to be a good situation. Becoming a parent really enriches your life, but it's important to make sure you're both on the same page.

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Kids are over rated anyways lol

Sounds like u are doing just fine. ♡

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