>.< A Family Weekend For the First Time | 04/26/2015 |
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~♥ Today I'm Thankful For... My new life!
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Everything has changed. It's in a very good way though. It's just all so new and different. And it feels so right even though I've never done this before. .... We spent the majority of the weekend with my boyfriend. And by we, I mean my daughter and I. Things changed this week. Wednesday evening after work, the Boyfriend and I needed to see each other but I couldn't get a babysitter. While we talked alone, he suggested he take my daughter and I out to dinner. The week before I had told my daughter it was up to her when she met him, and I told her about him. My daughter is 8 1/2 and smarter than many of the adults I know. She's so mature and makes good decisions, so after she and I had a long talk about him and things, I left it up to her when she wanted to meet him. So that night I asked her about it. He was obviously ready to meet her, otherwise he wouldn't have asked to take us to dinner. She thought about it and said yes.
We went up to his place and they were introduced. He asked her where she wanted to go and she chose McDonald's. We only go there occasionally for a treat because their food is so unhealthy, but my kiddo loves to play there. He bought us all dinner, and the 3 of us had a really normal and domestic dinner. It was really nice. They talked about a lot of stuff and got along well. After dinner we went back to his apartment and we all watched a My Little Pony movie together. After the movie, she and I went home since it was a work week for both of us. It went really well! We all had a great night together. During the week he and I made plans for the weekend. I couldn't find a sitter so we made plans for the 3 of us again. We went over Friday evening and went to the store together, then went back to his place and made dinner, all so domestic. We ate together and talked and had a good time. Unfortunately the garlic bread I ate irritated my stomach, I guess it had a lot of gluten in it. :/
After dinner we put the little one to bed we watched a movie together cuddling on the couch. After the movie we went to bed and had some adult fun in a much quieter way than we usually do haha. We were both trying to be respectful of my daughter even though she was out like a light and sleeps through even the vacuum. After sex we went to sleep in bed together. My stomach was cramping from the bread so I didn't sleep well. In the morning we had sex twice, which was unusual but fun!  When we got up, we made breakfast and got my kiddo up, and we all ate together. Later one of my Boyfriend's friend came over and we met him for the first time. It's so unusual for me to even get that far in a relationship. His friend was very nice, and we made plans to go to the zoo later with him and his wife and kids.
The zoo was fun especially because my Boyfriend hadn't been before. His friends have a kiddo a few years younger than mine and the kids had fun together. It was weird for me at first because I'm not used to meeting the friends of someone I date, and I wasn't sure how it would go. They ended up inviting us over for a bbq dinner that night too. Again, totally not something I do. But we had a really fun time there. My Boyfriend was so excited and having fun, it made me happy to see that. I had a good time too and chatted with everyone there. It was a really nice Saturday. It felt so comfortable to do all that stuff together. I think that was weird for me too, how easy and comfortable it was. I can't explain why we get along so well and are so comfortable together, why it feels like we've been together for years. It's just that way.
After the bbq we put the munchkin to bed and watched a couple episodes of Game of Thrones. We love that show! We watched the 1st season last weekend and plan on watching them all together. We had some drinks too and then had some fun too, fun that involved me being bent over the couch and fucked.  And a little BDSM fun too.  It makes me so happy that I get to have such a wonderful, domestic, normal relationship and I get to have a kinky, dirty, BDSM relationship all in one! I can't even begin to express how great it feels. It's like everything has just fallen into place. We went to bed after and I slept really well. I'm adjusting to sleeping in someone else's bed with a guy. When we woke up we had sex again, making it a total of 5 times over the weekend! I love it haha!
I had to work today so we got the kiddo up and we all built a cute little DIY science experiment set, and then the 2 of them did a couple small experiments while I watched and just enjoyed seeing them getting along together. He's so good with her. He's sweet, patient, thoughtful, kind, considerate, and looks out for her. He's told me over and over again that the reason he's so good to me is because he cares about me a lot and I deserve it. He told me that she deserves that too. I think that's pretty amazing. He's such a great guy. His friends like him, he's kind and friendly to people he's just met like his friend's family, he's thoughtful and super kind to my munchkin and I. How did I get so lucky? I've spent 31 years dating on and off, but I've never really had anyone good or something like this. Maybe I didn't look for anything serious or I chose to run before I could get to this place. Who knows. All I know is that there is something different about this one.
I'm happy, truly happy. It's been a very long time since I've felt like this, felt like I had a really great life in a lot of ways. And I don't think I've ever felt like this in a relationship before. Not like this. This is different. I wish I could explain why or verbalize it, but I honestly have no clue. I belong with him. And it feels perfectly right to be with him. That's all I know.
He told me that whenever my kiddo and I want to go over to his we are welcome to. I like that he says that. They both were talking about the next time we're all together. It's really cute. And he keeps telling me he likes where this is going, and that we have a lot more weekends of doing fun stuff together ahead. I like that he talks about us together in the future like that. It shows he's committed to this and to us. And he's planning for the future with us and looking forward to it. When he talks about it, it doesn't feel scary. It just feels right. I'm looking forward to seeing where it goes as well!
⊱ ღ Belle Ivy Rose ⊰
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